My Heart Hurts...

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anonymous said:
if u dont mind can u please read my thread, and reply to me according to that then, thank you sis
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I've passed your email to the original poster. She will contact you when she comes online again insha'Allaah.
 
sorry serena lol, anyway how did u get my address and has it been pased onto the original poster
 
anonymous said:
i would prefer to talk to you more closely, as in a proper conversation maybe, do you have an email address, msn? if u dont mind that is. u can also read my thread plz. its under anonymous and called. Salaam, some help and guidance needed? i think
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I was crying all through the thread. :cry:

Please give me some advice. I am going great heartache and pain. I am in love with someone who doesn't want to be with me. I can't seem to move on from him. I cry so much, I feel misery and pain. I feel like something has taken over my body, mind and soul. :cry:
 
i know how u feel sis, read my thread its called salaam need some help and guidance. it is a very difficult stage in our life, i went through a horrible time also, 5months down the line i still havent forgotten but i am slowly getting over it and i didnt ever think i would be ok the way i am now. and all that helped me was Allah swt, He says "remember Me and I shall remember you", if u walk towards Allah swt, He will run towards you. thats the best advice i can give you. what ever is written in our destiny thats what will happen sis, leave everything to our Creator
 
my heart is really hurting today, literally i can feel it aching. no words seem to make me feel better
 
F0z14 said:
my heart is really hurting today, literally i can feel it aching. no words seem to make me feel better
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hmm...

the ammount of stories ive heard

its funny cause you'll end up feeling better later on anyway but you'll still hurt right now, if i was you i KNOW i can change my feelings but it seems to be a gifted ability because so many people say the famous words - I CANT HELP IT!... why? lol seriously i dont get it

nothing we say can make you feel better as you say, how about YOU say things then?

you can always talk, if not to us then Allaah.


things always change, Allaah's in control... doesnt that at least bring some comfort? or does it bring bitterness... let me ask you this do you think Allaah will EVER do something to make things worse? honestly?... think about it :)
 
i understand what u are saying brother, i realy do. but it really is the case of i cant help but feel like this. its been 5 months, ive tried everythin, ive started practising, im working full time, i was seeing a counsellor, and now cuz im goin back soon, i feel like im back 2 where i was 5months ago. the pain is becoming unbearable
 
^ sometimes you come to a halt...but then there is nothing that will help you or give you patience except relying on allah [i am not the original poster]
 
F0z14 said:
i understand what u are saying brother, i realy do. but it really is the case of i cant help but feel like this. its been 5 months, ive tried everythin, ive started practising, im working full time, i was seeing a counsellor, and now cuz im goin back soon, i feel like im back 2 where i was 5months ago. the pain is becoming unbearable
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your mind is thinking you are going back to the past, its making you think you are returning to that point of pain once again BUT you need to realise that the times have changed! it IS five months later and things are different now, your different! his different , your whole mentality and hearts are different, the times are different even what you are studying is different.

so you need to stop living in the past, it is NOT the same anymore, your going FORWARD to a different time now, a different situation things will NOT be the same!


i hope im making sense here :exhausted
 
i dont know if i am just feeling sorry 4 myself. or whether i genuienly am still hurting from all this. i really just wish i could turn my back completely, and never ever look back again. EVER. and when i go back and i feel nothing if i se him, thats what i pray 4 everyday from the bottom of my heart
 
:salamext:

^ Can you not be with him in a halal way? Have you thought about marriage?
 
F0z14 said:
i think i still do, but i really want to and NEED to move on
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You know what you need to do so may Allah (swt) help you do it. Ameen.

I'll call you tonight insha'Allah

WassalamuAlaykum
 

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