My husband has just divorced me, what next?

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AnonymousGender said:
Salam all, I would appreciate any advice. My husband has just divorced me by saying "I divorce you, I divorce you. I divorce you".

What happens now, what am I supposed to do?
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This is a controversial issue among Muslims if 3 divorce at one time should be counted as one or 3. I read that Prophet pbuh once became very angry with a man who gave 3 talak at a time . Prophet pbuh said something like that I am still alive and u have started making fun of Allah's words ? Then he counted the talak as one .

So , pl. consult a qualified mufti for fatwa.

Some men after giving 3 talak at one time want to take back wife . Then arrange fake marriage with hired men so that they will give divorce after one nignt and wife will return to them . Don't do this mistake.

May Allah guide our Muslims brothers not to give 3 talaks and arrange fake marriages .
 
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AnonymousGender said:
Thanks. I didn't think it would effect me likr this. I cant sleep, or eat wow
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Oh no don't say that. Now I won't be able to sleep until you eat something.imsad

Please don't torture yourself over this. God will give you peace and blessings:D

But you still have to sleep .....and eat....Food is good.

I bet your really wanting some Italian food right now....come on admit it. Everybody lovvvvvvves Italian food. How about some Lasagne or Stuffed Chilis or Spagetti with( Non-pork) meatballs. And covered with Parmesan cheese. Ummmmm ummmmm good!:D:D:D

You will be fine sister! Be happy you have so many around you that care.:D

And how about some tasty Chicken Parmesan......Now i'm hungry:p

God is with you, He will give you strength.......and an apetite:statisfie
 
I'm am very sorry to hear about this sis :(

I'm sure allah has a better man waiting for you.
Remember, don't blame yourself and it's his loss not yours :)
 
Umm ul-Shaheed said:
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time heals all wounds...well wait, allah does that :p but time is a means to heal the wounds

all the best and may allah replace you with a better man :)
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AsSalamOAlaikum WaRehmatuAllah WaBarkatuhu

SubhaanAllah!.... Great quote

Also strengthen your relationship with Allah Subhana Wa'Tala!

Ameen to the Dua!

FiAmaaniAllah
 
:sl: sister,

May Allah be with you, and give you strength at this difficult time. There is a lovely du'aa that you can read:

"Innaa lillaahi wa innaa ilaihi raajioon. Allaahumma ajirnee fee museebatee wakhluflee khairan minhaa."

Translation: "Indeed we belong to Allah and unto Him is our return. Oh Allah, recompense me for my calamity and replace it for me with something better." (Muslim 2/632)

Perhaps, although this is sad, maybe in the long term it will be better for your deen and dunyaa, and maybe Allah will, if He wills, replace this calamity with something much, much better, and recompense you for your handling of it.

May Allah help you sister and give you strength. Ameen.

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I am very sorry to hear that sis . Stay strong and read quran. make sure that you put this behind you and concentrate on making ur life better :) .May be concentrate on your career too ?
 
:sl: May Allah relieve you of your sorrow and distress dear ukhti. No matter how bad we hurt at the start, believe me the pain does slowly fade. Love yourself ukhti and believe that you deserve happiness. Don't let this one bad experience taint the rest of your life. May Allah be with you through all your trials and replace them with much happiness in both worlds. Ameen
 
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Umm ul-Shaheed said:
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time heals all wounds...well wait, allah does that :p but time is a means to heal the wounds

all the best and may allah replace you with a better man :)
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Allah is time. The Prophet :saws1: said 'Do not inveigh against time for Allah is Time' [Agreed upon]

But you should also know that time is not one of Allah's names.

Imam Nawawi said in explanation to this hadeeth:

They said: this is a metaphor, because the Arabs used to inveigh against time when disasters such as death, old age, loss of money, etc., happened. They would say 'Woe to time' and other phrases cursing or inveighing against time. So the Prophet (saws1) said: 'Do not inveigh against time for Allah is time' i.e. do not inveigh against the One Who brings about those disasters, for that will be directed towards Allah for He is the One Who causes them to happen. Time means zamaan (time) which cannot do anything in and of itself for it is just one of the things that have been created by Allah.

The meaning of the phrase 'for Allah is time' means that He is the One Who causes those events and accidents to happen and He is the Creator of all that happens. And Allah knows best.

(Sharh Muslim, 15/3)
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