Sister I want to say this to you so that you avoid become a disbeliever without you knowing and you spend your entire life praying and your prayer is not accepted because you need to do shahada and fix the situation that you are not aware of from the first place....I am not saying you are a disbeliever...I am saying I want to avoid you being one without you knowing and end up in that situation above ^ without you knowing...and that is the worst situation to be.....when you finally hand in the exam and you failed it without knowing why you failed it thinking you passed it....
You cannot hate polygamy....because that is mentioned in Qura'an and it is halal for the man...so be careful. Just remember..not to hate the very polygamy itself but to love it but...but...you don't want to be in the situation because your husband is failing in applying polygamy in the correct way that Allah (SWT) have ordered us to do it in Qura'an. Had your husband did it the right way...and followed the Qura'an correctly in how to do it....then you would not even be posting here in the first place and would love it and push it for other sisters out there. It is not the polygamy is the problem it is YOUR HUSBAND who is failing in giving your rights correctly...by all means leave your husband and find someone who can give your rights correctly even if it is another man who already have three wives and you are the forth one. Remember...don't leave because of polygamy itself...leave because your husband is not giving your rights correctly as a wife and not because of polygamy.
You understand where I am coming from?
