Assalamualaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuh.
Brother, sisters, thank you very much for your condolences and sympathy, Jazak Allahu Khairan.
My mother was born in 1944 and he was an active old woman, I mean she spent her days with activities.I
know it because because she lived with me. Every Wednesday my mother recited Qur'an with her Qur'an recitation group. I always drove her with my car to the Ustadzah home, but she always walked when back to the home except when rain.
Tuesday morning, Oct 12, she looked fine. But in the afternoon she felt something wrong with her stomach. Wednesday morning, a doctor checked her and told us if my mother needed to take a rest in the hospital. Around 10 AM, she went to the hospital near my home with my sister. After Isha, my sister and my brother left her in the hospital with her maid. They thought, everything will be all right. My mother still looked fine when they left her.
However, at Thursday around 5 AM, my sister got a phone call from the hospital. My mother needed to move to ICU. Then my sister and my brother went to the hospital and meet her in the ICU. My mother still looked fine, even she could talked with them. My brother and my sister left her room and talked with the doctor around 10 minutes. When they back to ICU room, my mother looked like slept. But, when they touched her, they just realized if my mother had passed away.
Brothers, sisters, I know you must be want to ask why i was not with my mother in her last times. That was because I could not leaved my home, my wife was in illness, and I was the only (adult) man in the home. I really did not knew if that was my mother last times.
I am sorry if I never told you if my family is in problem. My wife get breast cancer. According to the plan, she must going to the hospital and get chemotherapy at Thursday, Oct 14. But the plan has changed. My wife will going to hospital tomorrow.
Brothers, sisters, I will off from the forum, maybe for few days. But, Insha Allah, I will be back and tell my problem. I need advices. Please make du'a for my mother, also for my wife.
Wasalamualaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuh.