My parents against me marrying

May Allah make it easy for you sister who made this thread and give you whats best for you ameen!

If things do not work out and your wali does not except then remember Allah is the best of planners we can plan our lifes all we want but no plan is better then Allah's plan!

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Umm ul-Shaheed read through the thread cause i have pretty much answered those questions before.

I have waited almost one year so far but nothing changed, I might as well wait until i'm all grey and sixty.
 
Do you discuss this issue with your parents frequently? If so, are the arguments and ways to tell you off the same as in the beginning?

InshaAllah, have patience. A year is nothing compared to what some people have had to wait. My parents always say "patience will be rewarded" and inshaAllah this will happen to you sister.
 
anonymous said:
Umm ul-Shaheed read through the thread cause i have pretty much answered those questions before.

I have waited almost one year so far but nothing changed, I might as well wait until i'm all grey and sixty.
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Just relax sis, like the others have said you are still young. If you really want to marry each other, then you will wait for each other insha Allah. Try and get the Imam involved or an alim.
 
Aalims and Imams do not have any affect on asian families at all. In fact, if the sister is asian, then she will make things worse for herself if outsiders get involved in a family matter. Your parents always know what is best for you.

If you have a high sexual drive, and that is the reason why you want to marry, then I suggest you start fasting as much as you can. And keep your gaze lowered, for I find that when the gaze is lowered the human is fine, when the gaze raises upwards, the shaytaan ignites a spark of desire within the human, and they turn into a beast and want to fulfil their desire.

Have sabr and trust in Allah. If your wedding is not happening and its been a year, there is a bigger plan behind it. Just relax.
 
T.I.A said:
Aalims and Imams do not have any affect on asian families at all. In fact, if the sister is asian, then she will make things worse for herself if outsiders get involved in a family matter. Your parents always know what is best for you.

If you have a high sexual drive, and that is the reason why you want to marry, then I suggest you start fasting as much as you can. And keep your gaze lowered, for I find that when the gaze is lowered the human is fine, when the gaze raises upwards, the shaytaan ignites a spark of desire within the human, and they turn into a beast and want to fulfil their desire.

Have sabr and trust in Allah. If your wedding is not happening and its been a year, there is a bigger plan behind it. Just relax.
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The sister said she is Afghan.
 
It still won't have any affect on the parents. I highly doubt it.
 
dear brother your still young, wait untill you are atleast over 18, for example 19 or 20, then you have full judgement and inshallah can have total control over your life.
 
^ subhannallah, 25 :X :enough!: :laugh:

May Allah give us strength to lower our gazes and control our evil nafs!!! ameen! thumma ameen:thumbs_up
 

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