ok i cant say how your sister a lot of people when you tell them NOT to do something that was always the first thing to do on the checklist. if she has not met internet guy yet then find someone good for her and introduce them in the proper way... maybe she will loose intrest... if you choose to talk to her i wouldnt be confrontational. be sensitive about the subject.
my sister has a boyfreind!
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subhanallah, with Allah swt help she left him. when i went to talk to her she was very guilty and it turns out she had started to end the relationship .
anyway she was still going to see him now and then for "work" but alhamdulillah i convinced her not to. she is now going to break ties with him altogether. (and i didnt have to get into a fist fight!)
thx for you great advice guys and duas. may Allah make you sucesful in facing the trials of this dunya. Ameen
anyway she was still going to see him now and then for "work" but alhamdulillah i convinced her not to. she is now going to break ties with him altogether. (and i didnt have to get into a fist fight!)
thx for you great advice guys and duas. may Allah make you sucesful in facing the trials of this dunya. Ameen
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Alhamdulilah.
Don't assume that she will be able to get all thoughts of him out of her head instantly. Shaytan is there and with stuff like this, he will play with her mind. After a few days, weeks or months, it is not unlikely that she might break and want to know how he is doing etc. If they know each other in real life, it is going to be doubly hard for her, given that she will see him around often (I guess).
In light of that, don't leave her alone or wipe your hands with the issue. It is not completely over. Persist in being supportive of your sister and let her know that she must be strong if the shaytan strikes. Try and guide her into being a better muslim always, inshaAllah that will act as a barrier and make her feel guilty enough to stay away for good.
Don't assume that she will be able to get all thoughts of him out of her head instantly. Shaytan is there and with stuff like this, he will play with her mind. After a few days, weeks or months, it is not unlikely that she might break and want to know how he is doing etc. If they know each other in real life, it is going to be doubly hard for her, given that she will see him around often (I guess).
In light of that, don't leave her alone or wipe your hands with the issue. It is not completely over. Persist in being supportive of your sister and let her know that she must be strong if the shaytan strikes. Try and guide her into being a better muslim always, inshaAllah that will act as a barrier and make her feel guilty enough to stay away for good.
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Few things first
1) explain to her kindly before you complain to her parents.only if she refuses then do so
2) Never at this point look down upon her as if she is a lesser muslim than you.She just made some mistakes. Be kind to her.
3) SPYING is also not allowed in islam.
1) explain to her kindly before you complain to her parents.only if she refuses then do so
2) Never at this point look down upon her as if she is a lesser muslim than you.She just made some mistakes. Be kind to her.
3) SPYING is also not allowed in islam.