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Thanks for all the help.
I have a very small but important news to share with u. My wife came to know some sketchy thing about my shahada and surprisingly she is not averse to it at least now.
I have a very small but important news to share with u. My wife came to know some sketchy thing about my shahada and surprisingly she is not averse to it at least now.
thats encouraging news! i took the shahada a few days ago and im married with children, my wife asnd children do not know yet. Hopefully at some point they will see the positive changes in me then i will tell them why.
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Thanks simoh we share similar situation. let us work together to come out of it.
Have you given any idea or even small hint to your wife? what is her reaction.
Mine seems to have taken it as an amusement now but sure i know there will be burstout
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If you wish we can communicate in yahoo messenger, it is same id there also only delete last at
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Ive been leaving loads of books around and she knows im reading the Qu'ran. Usually we have the odd glass of wine at weekends, and i dont want to anymore!
Ive been leaving loads of books around and she knows im reading the Qu'ran. Usually we have the odd glass of wine at weekends, and i dont want to anymore!
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Hos exactly similar are we. Allah has brought us together in this forum to become good friends and brothers in islam!
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May Allah SWT give you strength to both of you.
You may want make as much du'a as possible because when you reverted, you became sinless, and your sincere du'a will be likely to be accepted. Insya Allah.
Especially du'a so Allah give guidance also to your wives and family.
You may want make as much du'a as possible because when you reverted, you became sinless, and your sincere du'a will be likely to be accepted. Insya Allah.
Especially du'a so Allah give guidance also to your wives and family.
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Not I have a small news. My wife has finally agreed to me beoing muslim with only condition that we should not go public. I have now accepted that as we both feel what we practice is none of other's business. We intend not to show we practice islam to anyone in family or society.
Is it good? or whould we tell at least few confident people?
Is it good? or whould we tell at least few confident people?
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Allah Akbar.. so happy to learn of the news of your wife's conversion al7mdlilah..
my humble opinion is that you should take it easy and learn all you can for now and forget about what your conversion means to other people until you both have a good fund of knowledge and are stronger as a unit..
my humble opinion is that you should take it easy and learn all you can for now and forget about what your conversion means to other people until you both have a good fund of knowledge and are stronger as a unit..
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Thsnks for all encouraging words. Inshallah we are now practicing as much as we can and our love for each other had increased. Allah is great and all merciful and does only right things for his followers
assalmualikum,
Dear uncle sunnyhayat,
Allhamdulilah that you are now settled with your wife and your religion. I must tell you one thing about what your wife said, "we must not go public." Theres something in islam called "taki'ah", or something like that which implements that if something is going to happen because you are muslim, you are aloud to lie about your religion.
So don't feel ashamed when you lie in the public about your religion.
i hope this helps XD
mashallah, you are on the right path. Allah has blessed you
wassalam
Dear uncle sunnyhayat,
Allhamdulilah that you are now settled with your wife and your religion. I must tell you one thing about what your wife said, "we must not go public." Theres something in islam called "taki'ah", or something like that which implements that if something is going to happen because you are muslim, you are aloud to lie about your religion.
So don't feel ashamed when you lie in the public about your religion.
i hope this helps XD
mashallah, you are on the right path. Allah has blessed you
wassalam