I will elaborate on my situation. I work on a farm with my parents, my cousin, and his parents. They have been accommodating with letting me not work on Friday, since it takes most of the day to drive up and back to Jumuah. During certain circumstances, if I were to be gone for most of the day on Friday, I wouldn’t be fulfilling my obligations to my parents and family.
My dad and uncle decide when we do major operations like plowing fields, planting, cutting hay etc. We have to try to work around the weather and do certain things when we get the opportunity. We can’t work the fields when it is raining for example, and we try to not do certain things when we think it is going to rain. If it rains right after we plow the fields, the weeds that were uprooted have a better chance of coming back because the moisture allows them to regain a hold in the ground. It is also not good to get rain in between cutting and bailing hay, because it isn’t good to bail hay when it is wet. If some of our machinery was to break down, my dad would need my help to repair it. We usually try to fix things right away, so we are not delayed too long.
My Dad is 75 and my uncle is in his late 60s. They can’t do a lot of the harder work anymore since they are getting old. For example when we are planting wheat, we have to frequently refill the drills with fertilizer and seed that is heavy. We do this for most of the day and my cousin and I do most of this work. When we are calving, we have to check the 1 year old cows every 3 hours to make sure they aren’t having trouble giving birth. For example if the calf was backwards, you would have to help pull the calf because the cow would not be able to give birth on its own. If you don’t the calf would die in about 3 hours and the cow will probably die after that. We check the older cows twice a day or 3 times a day if it is snowing or the weather is bad. We are kind of overwhelmed with the amount of work that needs to be done at times. We can’t really afford to hire someone else to help.
If some of this work falls on a Friday, would it be considered an acceptable excuse to miss the Jumuah? Since there are no other Muslims anywhere close, the only option for Jumuah is a 2 and a half hour drive both ways.