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Hello im new here i want to convert but i want to know more i want to commit and understand
 
Hi FindingMyWay, I'm new too.

I hope we can possibly help you.

Feel free to ask whatever you like
 
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Hello im new here i want to convert but i want to know more i want to commit and understand
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Hi !!
Ask any question and we will be glad to answer inshallah ( God willing ) .
May Allah guide you and show you the right path Amiin ya rab
 
Thank You! Where do i begin there is so much but for starters I will say I took my Shahada last year in September shortly before i married a brother by the Iman at his Mosque. Things were going good until he started in on me on every little thing from perfume to me wearing make up I was very emotional because shortly after we married i got pregnant it was just alot to take in and every step i took i felt like i was going to the hell fire he was always so concerned with my little flaws i was willing to change like the make up he forgot to teach me the big things like teaching me to pray and learn Islam i felt let down one day it was all to much for me so i sent him a text telling him i was going back to Christianity because it was what i knew and it was not as difficult as Islam seemed to just worship and love God im now pregnant with his first son and according to him we are divorced because i went back to Christianity we never went in front of a judge just the Shiek so im guessing thats why its so easy to divorce now i have 2 more months to go in this pregnancy and im very uncertain and unclear on what to do a part of me wants to make things work and get back with him for the sake of my son but the other part of me says no because how i felt while i was with him now im so sad because i see Brothers and Sisters out and about looking like a team happy not bikering not divided thats what i seeked through our relationship and to learn more about Islam but now I am on my own finding my own way reading and studying with out someone constantly telling me i will go to hell sorry alot but i just seek the right way i truly do with out feeling judged every step or mistake i make
 
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Thank You! Where do i begin there is so much but for starters I will say I took my Shahada last year in September shortly before i married a brother by the Iman at his Mosque. Things were going good until he started in on me on every little thing from perfume to me wearing make up I was very emotional because shortly after we married i got pregnant it was just alot to take in and every step i took i felt like i was going to the hell fire he was always so concerned with my little flaws i was willing to change like the make up he forgot to teach me the big things like teaching me to pray and learn Islam i felt let down one day it was all to much for me so i sent him a text telling him i was going back to Christianity because it was what i knew and it was not as difficult as Islam seemed to just worship and love God im now pregnant with his first son and according to him we are divorced because i went back to Christianity we never went in front of a judge just the Shiek so im guessing thats why its so easy to divorce now i have 2 more months to go in this pregnancy and im very uncertain and unclear on what to do a part of me wants to make things work and get back with him for the sake of my son but the other part of me says no because how i felt while i was with him now im so sad because i see Brothers and Sisters out and about looking like a team happy not bikering not divided thats what i seeked through our relationship and to learn more about Islam but now I am on my own finding my own way reading and studying with out someone constantly telling me i will go to hell sorry alot but i just seek the right way i truly do with out feeling judged every step or mistake i make
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This is very sad to hear sister.

If you live in the U.K, the Shariah Council can provide you with advice, or there are some organisations that help such as SOLACE who specially help revert sisters in difficulty. http://www.solaceuk.org
 
Thank You but im not in the uk im in US Im going to see if there are some organizations out here like this
 
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Thank You but im not in the uk im in US Im going to see if there are some organizations out here like this
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You could possibly still contact them and maybe they can provide you some advice or they may know of organisations within the states.
 
Welcome to the forum.

Sorry to hear your 'stress' . . . I guess, your husband is also not entirely sure how to start teaching as there is sooooo much to learn. You got to remember that the Quran was introduced over a 26 (?) year period and people learnt it over time, slowly incorporating the lessons into their life.

Start with the few obligations you need, like prayers and move on from there basically learn about what Allah likes and what He dislikes. Reading helps.. it will take time, so tell your husband to stop 'nit picking' and help you learn.

Wishing you a great stay.


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Thank You so much I have a question if you can answer it if i told him i was going back to Christianity how do I get back to Islam im so confused rite now because he says we are no longer married because I said i was going back to Christianity if only you can answer if not thank you the same for your reply
 
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Thank You so much I have a question if you can answer it if i told him i was going back to Christianity how do I get back to Islam im so confused rite now because he says we are no longer married because I said i was going back to Christianity if only you can answer if not thank you the same for your reply
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I think you are still married . Changing to another religion doesn't mean you are not his wife .
To come back to Islam you just have to say the Shahada again from your heart and ask Allah to guide and learn step by step and don't get stressed . Inshallah everything will be okay .

Peace !!
 
Findingmyway247 said:
Thank You so much I have a question if you can answer it if i told him i was going back to Christianity how do I get back to Islam im so confused rite now because he says we are no longer married because I said i was going back to Christianity if only you can answer if not thank you the same for your reply
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Sister if you have another questions just us here and inshallah we will do our best to help [emoji8] [emoji8] [emoji8]
 
Findingmyway247 said:
Thank You so much I have a question if you can answer it if i told him i was going back to Christianity how do I get back to Islam im so confused rite now because he says we are no longer married because I said i was going back to Christianity if only you can answer if not thank you the same for your reply
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If you don't mind me asking, where in the states are you located I will try find something for you?
 
Wow thank you so very much I truly appreciate you from the bottom of my heart:) :)
 
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