Non muslim girl pregnant

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"If" never solves anything. What's done is done. However, an intelligent person focuses on how best to move forward.
 
Yes, in Islaam there is trying. Trying one's best. If a person tries his best to do something but does not achieve it, Allaah Ta`aalaa gives him the reward of having done it. For example, a person tries his best to recite Qur'aan correctly, yet he stutters for example, or can't pronounce the letters properly, etc. he will receive double-reward. In reality, all Allaah Ta`aalaa wants from us is for us to try our best. That's it.
 
readyred39 said:
I don't know how to contact his family in France! If I knew I would! He has been very careful when he comes around! At first I would hold his passport and visa for him at times or Important documents but nothing now!
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Ok, so the family is in France, but he himself is in Nevada?
 
Aaqib said:
Wait, the family has already went back to France?
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No as he puts it he came for a vacation 7 months but ended up getting in a car wreck for which he was at fault (DUI) he has court hearings to attend before can leave to go back to France!
 
M.I.A. said:
you should keep the baby!

...you could almost think we have an anti abortion vibe about us..


its just a coincidence.

do you know any other muslims?

how would you raise your child? ...religiously speaking.


i suppose your child could be the perfect candidate for interfaith bonding..

although most children are :/

i hope you keep it.. ask your other children
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My children would love to have this baby in our lives! I keep no secrets from them! When I told them they were overjoyed! I also have told them about how he (father) feels! As always my children's response is that we pray for him!
 
Al Sultan said:
Well,first of all sister,im sorry to hear that and may God make ease on you,what I STRONGLY recommend is,tell your parents,only to the trusted ones (uncles,relatives) and raise the baby...
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I was adopted when I was young at age 7 My Mother and FFathe have long left this life! My biological Mother and Family I have never really known!
readyred39 said:
He is from France,his family is in France! His father is a prominent leader in Islamic community there! He will be leaving to go back next month! He told me yesterday if I keep the baby to make sure the baby is taught Its Islamic heritage! Although I know nothing about this religion I promise to do as best as I can to make sure my baby will know him/her heritage!
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I have come to this board because there is no one I can go to please forgive me for troubles!
 
how to advise you regarding the pregnancy i dont really know however please do not consider abortion as viable solution. The baby has a right to live and frankly speaking as a muslim the father should know better to suggest such a thing
however i want to encourage you to look at this site to inshaAllah learn a little about islam. please have a look im sure you will be presently surprised in what you see inshaAllah
www.islamreligion.com

dont judge islam by what muslims do rather judge muslims by Islam
if you have any questions dont hesitate to ask we are here for you
 
the illegitimate father has responsibility over the child?
 
Kiro said:
the illegitimate father has responsibility over the child?
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There is no illegitimate father, there is no illegitimate child.

If a man has child, in marriage or outside the marriage, he is the father of this child, and has responsibility as father toward this child.
 
readyred39 said:
He due to leave in November
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You could go to the court and demand he support your child even if he goes back and have court force him to reveal his contact back home. This way you could find out about his family. Also since you saw his documents, find out where he is from, what city. IF nothing else, find out his fathers name and take a picture of him. You could go on facebook and look for that community and share the picture to see if anyone knows him and find his family that way. This is not dead end just because he hasn't revealed where he lives.
 
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My baby is not an illigitimate child! My child is of my blood and his father who happens to be muslim! I bear half as he his half...I was told I wasnt able to bear children anymore but yet here I am with child at 39 a blessing it is! I came to this forum so that I can get an understanding of how and what I should do because I have no one to turn to! And to the person that suggested that I lie with another man then that would make him the father HOW DARE YOU SAY SUCH A THING....
 

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