Non-Practising Muslims

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salaam alaikum!

so what do you called a man who doesent pray, only fast in ramdhan, but curse, backbit and dosent behave him self in a good manner to his family, but did say ! there is no god but Allah and muhammad is his prophet????
 
nennar said:
salaam alaikum!

so what do you called a man who doesent pray, only fast in ramdhan, but curse, backbit and dosent behave him self in a good manner to his family, but did say ! there is no god but Allah and muhammad is his prophet????
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2 things sis :):

1.
SAHIH BUKHARI
Volume 8, Book 76, Number 500:
Narrated Sa'd bin Sahl As-Sa'idi:

The Prophet looked at a man fighting against the pagans and he was one of the most competent persons fighting on behalf of the Muslims. The Prophet said, "Let him who wants to look at a man from the dwellers of the (Hell) Fire, look at this (man)." Another man followed him and kept on following him till he (the fighter) was injured and, seeking to die quickly, he placed the blade tip of his sword between his breasts and leaned over it till it passed through his shoulders (i.e., committed suicide)." The Prophet added, "A person may do deeds that seem to the people as the deeds of the people of Paradise while in fact, he is from the dwellers of the (Hell) Fire: and similarly a person may do deeds that seem to the people as the deeds of the people of the (Hell) Fire while in fact, he is from the dwellers of Paradise. Verily, the (results of) deeds done, depend upon the last actions."
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We cant tell just what a person is no matter what, even if they seem to be the worst of people or the best of people.

2.

SAHIH BUKHARI
Volume 4, Book 53, Number 333:
Narrated Safiya:

(the wife of the Prophet) That she came to visit Allah's Apostle while he was in Itikaf(i.e. seclusion in the Mosque during the last ten days of Ramadan. When she got up to return, Allah's Apostle got up with her and accompanied her, and when he reached near the gate of the Mosque close to the door (of the house) of Um Salama, the wife of the Prophet, two Ansari men passed by them and greeted Allah's Apostle and then went away. Allah's Apostle addressed them saying, "Don't hurry! (She is my wife)," They said, "Glorified be Allah! O Allah's Apostle (You are far away from any suspicion)," and his saying was hard on them. Allah's Apostle said, "Satan circulates in the mind of a person as blood does (in his body). I was afraid that Satan might put some (evil) thoughts in your minds."
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these two things show, satan can easily influence our thinking therefore we shouldnt try to arrive at a conclusion for any human. Good or bad its not for us to decide, Allah will decide that, how bout we jus do wat we feel is right and stik to that :D

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salaam alaikum! :brother: majeed!

i can see you point! thank you! i have learned some more:thankyou:
 
my husband believe!!!! , but he doesent practise! he has a bad mouth and he is always angry, he swears and he is not nice to me and the children! he is a born muslim, yet he dont care, but say to me that allah will forgive him all when he starts to pray????????????????
 
subhanAllah. sis if i was you i would make dua constantly for him and hope ALlah opens his heart, at the same time give him dawa inshaAllah.

May Allah guide your husband AMEEN!

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salaam:brother:

i pray everyday that Allah may guide him to the right pad...... and inchallah i will sucsed:thankyou:
 
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Question:

My husband neglects his religion; he does not fast in Ramadaan and he does not pray, and moreover, he stops me from doing any good deed. He has also started to be so suspicious of me, that he has left his work to stay home so he can watch over me. What should I do?



Answer:

Praise be to Allaah.

It is not permissible to stay with a husband who is like this, because by neglecting the salaah (prayer) he is a kaafir, and it is not permissible for a Muslim woman to marry a kaafir or stay with him. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“… if you ascertain that they [women] are true believers, send them not back to the disbelievers, they are not lawful (wives) for the disbelievers nor are the disbelievers lawful (husbands) for them…” [al-Mumtahinah 60:10]

The marriage between you and him is null and void, and there can be no nikaah (marriage) between you unless Allaah guides him and he repents to Allaah and comes back to Islam. In that case the marriage will remain valid. The husband’s conduct is not correct, and it seems to me that he is suffering from some kind of (mental) illness, namely paranoia and waswaas (insinuating whispers of the Shaytaan) from which some people suffer with regard to their worship and their dealings with others. Nothing will get rid of this sickness but remembering Allaah (dhikr), seeking refuge in Him and putting one’s trust in Him to get rid of it. What matters is that for your part, you have to leave him and not stay with him, because he is a kaafir and you are a believer. With regard to your husband, we advise him to come back to his religion and to seek refuge with Allaah from the accursed Shaytaan, and to try to recite some beneficial du’aa’s with which to rid his heart of this waswaas. We ask Allaah to help him. And Allaah knows best.


From the Fataawa of Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen, in al-Da’wah magazine, no. 1709, p. 34

source: http://www.islam-qa.com/index.php?ref=6257&ln=eng&txt=salaah

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Question:

The saheeh ahaadeeth state clearly that the one who neglects prayer is a kaafir. If we take the hadeeth at face value, it appears that we are obliged to deprive the person who neglects prayer deliberately of all his rights of inheritance, a separate cemetery should be allocated for such people, and we cannot pray for them or greet them with salaam, because there is no greeting of peace for a kaafir. Let us not forget that if we were to calculate the number of men, believers and non-believers alike, who pray, we will find it is only 6%, and among women the number is even less. What does Islam have to say about this? What is the ruling about giving or returning the greeting of salaam to one who neglects prayer?



Answer:

Praise be to Allaah.

The scholars have differed concerning the Muslim who deliberately neglects salaah without denying that it is obligatory. Some of them say that he is definitely a kaafir who has gone beyond the pale of Islam. He is considered to be a murtadd (apostate) who is to be given three days to repent – if he does not, he is to be executed for his apostasy. The funeral prayer will not be recited over him, and he will not be buried in the Muslim graveyard. The greeting of salaam is not to be given to him, in life or in death, and his greeting is not to be returned; prayers for forgiveness and mercy for him cannot be offered; he cannot inherit, neither can his wealth be inherited, instead it is to be given to the Muslim treasury (bayt al-maal). This ruling applies whether the number of people who are neglecting their prayers are many or a few.

This opinion is the soundest and most correct, because of the words of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him): “The difference between us and them is salaah. Whoever neglects it is a kaafir.” (Reported by Imaam Ahmad and the authors of Sunan with a saheeh isnaad); and: “(Nothing stands) between a man and kufr and shirk, except prayer: (whoever neglects it becomes a kaafir and a mushrik).” (Reported by Imaam Muslim in his Saheeh, with other similar ahaadeeth).

The majority of scholars said that if a person denies that prayer is obligatory, he is a kaafir and an apostate from the religion of Islam. The ruling concerning such a person is as described above. If he does not deny that it is obligatory, but he neglects it because of laziness, for example, then he is guilty of a major sin (kabeerah), but he is not considered to be beyond the pale of Islam. He should be given three days in which to repent. If he does, then al-hamdu lillah (praise be to Allaah); if he does not, then he should be executed, but this is a punishment, not because he became a kaafir. In this case, he should be washed (ghusl, after death) and wrapped in a shroud (kafn). The funeral prayer should be offered for him, prayers can be offered for forgiveness and mercy for him, and he should be buried in the Muslim graveyard. He can inherit and be inherited from. In general, all the rules concerning Muslims who are sinners apply to him, in life and in death.


(From Fataawa al-Lajnah al-Daa’imah, 6/49)

source: http://www.islam-qa.com/index.php?ref=2182&ln=eng&txt=salaah​



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i see your point! but what if he say he will kill you rather to let you go?
 
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I think you should tell him that if someone doesn't pray salaah, and leaves it completely - then the scholars say that the person is a kafir, and Allaah does not have mercy on the kuffar.. so try to get him close to islam, try your best to persuade him to perform salaah and make lots of dua' for him, your children and all the muslims.

Tell him the hadith aswell showing that the Messenger of Allaah (peace be upon him) said aswell that:

“The difference between us and them is salaah. Whoever neglects it is a kaafir.” (Reported by Imaam Ahmad and the authors of Sunan with a saheeh isnaad);

and:

“(Nothing stands) between a man and kufr and shirk, except prayer: (whoever neglects it becomes a kaafir and a mushrik).” (Reported by Imaam Muslim in his Saheeh, with other similar ahaadeeth).


jazak Allaahu khayr.. please remember that dua' is really important, and Allaah will help you insha'Allaah, as long as you have patience.


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sis if u die defending yourself and your religion and your children you will become shaheed inshaAllah.


INSHALLAH THAT WONT BE THE CASE> but i thought that will comfort you inshaALlah.

May ALlah guide us Ameen


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lol not all non practising muslims are kafir (if u read thru this thread ull find out that only a selection of non practising muslims are actually out of fold of islam).

But regardless wehther kafir or not, christian or budhist, kids are born in state of purity, they don't inherit sins of their parents or any silly thing like that... every kid is born on the 'fitrah' (natural inclination), and the parents either convert him to a jew, christian or fireworshiper etc.

hoep that answers it :)

ok hehe back 2 topic b4 we start drifting - feel free 2 start another therad if u wanna carry on by ne chance -
 
lol read first page or 2 of this thread bro i think i explained it to someone, that's exactly not the case...

erm.. it's kinda like saying, someone who says he loves you but then he bashes and slaps you is still considered to be your friend.

salamz
 
salaam:brother: !

thank you so much! and i promise i will make lots of dua and promise to be patient:)
 

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