Sister, I know Allah will test us. I also heard from some scholars that Allah made all the creation beautiful. Then why some people are found with serious deformities in the face (if you google you can see some people with very serious facial deformities, these people are considered "ugly") ? Does this mean - "Allah has Not made everyone beautiful ?"
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Sister, I know Allah will test us. I also heard from some scholars that Allah made all the creation beautiful. Then why some people are found with serious deformities in the face (if you google you can see some people with very serious facial deformities, these people are considered "ugly") ? Does this mean - "Allah has Not made everyone beautiful ?"
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Now you have to remember two things: what means to be beautiful to one doesn´t mean it to all others. You can compare it also to different times of the history. Still about 100 years ago many people were thinking that a pretty woman is fat and pale (At that time it meant she is enough rich and welfare to have plenty of food and no need to work outside). Now many are thinking that pretty woman is slim and tanned. Also, what kind of person is pretty/beautiful/handsome depends a lot of the basic cultures.
Also think about this: should we all be identical and look just same like others? Then nobody couldn´t feel that he/she isn´t as beautiful like those other people. Would that be better?
And the second: remember that Allah test us all - with different ways. It seems that to you the test is the idea that your nose isn´t beautiful, not your nose itself.
You have two choice with your nose: go to meet a doctor or therapist who can see do you need medical or therapy help for your problems (what ever they are) or accept it and thank Allah that he loves you so much to give you kind of nose. Also you can ask scholar about this matter and if you are unsure what if two scholars give you different answers - ask it only from one. If you learn to like it more, you surely will stop thinking about it too much and will understand that it might not means a lot to others. Also you can realise that your problem isn´t your nose but your self-confidence about how you look and how others look comparing yourself.
Sorry to say, but repeating how ugly your nose is, doesn´t help you at all. It only makes you feel more and more miserable.
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Also, note this earlier discussion:
http://www.islamicboard.com/aqeedah/134304585-allah-people-ugly-looking.html
http://www.islamicboard.com/aqeedah/134304585-allah-people-ugly-looking.html
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When I was young I've ever heard that everyone has his own luck that different than the others. Later I know, it's true.
Yes, there are people who are lucky because they are beautiful, there are people who are not so lucky because they are not beautiful. But it doesn't mean people who are not beautiful have no luck.
I knew a good looking couple that always got financial problem. The husband even has died now due to illness. And I also know people who are far from beautiful but they are rich.
Brother Ed, you are not lucky in beauty matter. But it's doesn't mean you have no luck in other matters. Probably in the future you will get easiness in career and get success more than many other people. Then you feel luckier than men who are handsome but not success like you. So my advice for you is change your dream from having beautiful wife into having good career.
Okay, this is my last post in this thread because nothing I can say anymore. I am really sorry if there are the things in my posts that offend you.
Wassalamualaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.
Yes, there are people who are lucky because they are beautiful, there are people who are not so lucky because they are not beautiful. But it doesn't mean people who are not beautiful have no luck.
I knew a good looking couple that always got financial problem. The husband even has died now due to illness. And I also know people who are far from beautiful but they are rich.
Brother Ed, you are not lucky in beauty matter. But it's doesn't mean you have no luck in other matters. Probably in the future you will get easiness in career and get success more than many other people. Then you feel luckier than men who are handsome but not success like you. So my advice for you is change your dream from having beautiful wife into having good career.
Okay, this is my last post in this thread because nothing I can say anymore. I am really sorry if there are the things in my posts that offend you.
Wassalamualaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.
I am almost sure that I will be rejected in the Job Interviews for my ugly-looking face...
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This is just the reason why you should meet some doc or therapist - your problem is not your nose but your self-confidence. If you are now thinking in your own how everybody will reject you because of your nose, then the longer you think about it, that stronger you believe that your image is true. But remember - this is only your own idea - not the reality. It´s how the negative self-suggestion works - it makes you by yourself to work against yourself. You can ruin your whole life if you start to believe that all your disappointments and failures are only because of your nose.
Stop wasting your time as thinking what you are looking, study well and prepare yourself well before you go to job interview. If you don´t get a job, don´t again start to blame your nose but study more and try again.