Obedience to parent
If you want to attain a success in both worlds then you should apply the following advice
1- Speak politely to your parents and humble yourself before them and never scold them nor express a word of disgust to them.
2- Obey your parents as long as no disobedience to Allah is involved.
3- Never frown at them nor give them any angry look.
4- Honor them and guard their reputation and their property. Never take any thing from them without their permission.
5- Do what pleases them and help them even with out their asking for your help.
6- Consult them in your own affairs and apologize to them if you faul to do so.
7- Respond to them quickly and with a smile when they call you.
8- Treat with courtesy your parents, friends and relatives during their life after their death.
9- Never argue with the, nor blame them and if they err, show them politely their error.
10- Never speak to them with loud voice and listen politely to them.
11- Help around the house, and after help to your father at his work.
12- Do not travel without their permission, and if you do, keep in touch with them.
13- Never offend them by any bad habit that you may have.
14- Never start eating before they do.
15- Never give your wife or children priority over them. Seek their pleasure, for doing so secures the pleasure of Allah.
16- Do not sit on a place higher then theirs.
17- If you maintain them, never be niggardly towards them. The way you treat them, your children treat you.
18- The most deserving of your kind ness in your mother, then your father, and know that jannah lies under the feet of mothers.
19- Never be disobedient to your parents for this in the case of misery in both worlds.
20- Ask your parents to supplicate in your favour because Allah responds to their dua for you or against you.
21- Supplicate frequently for them and ask Allah’s forgiveness for them.
22- Never cause any one to course them the prophet explained this by saying. “When a man curses another, the other would curse the means father. So be ware of this horrible sin”.
23- Remember whatever good deeds you do or accomplish, your parents will benefit from it after their death.
And remember too that the prophet said. “ You and your property belongs to your father.”
If you want to attain a success in both worlds then you should apply the following advice
1- Speak politely to your parents and humble yourself before them and never scold them nor express a word of disgust to them.
2- Obey your parents as long as no disobedience to Allah is involved.
3- Never frown at them nor give them any angry look.
4- Honor them and guard their reputation and their property. Never take any thing from them without their permission.
5- Do what pleases them and help them even with out their asking for your help.
6- Consult them in your own affairs and apologize to them if you faul to do so.
7- Respond to them quickly and with a smile when they call you.
8- Treat with courtesy your parents, friends and relatives during their life after their death.
9- Never argue with the, nor blame them and if they err, show them politely their error.
10- Never speak to them with loud voice and listen politely to them.
11- Help around the house, and after help to your father at his work.
12- Do not travel without their permission, and if you do, keep in touch with them.
13- Never offend them by any bad habit that you may have.
14- Never start eating before they do.
15- Never give your wife or children priority over them. Seek their pleasure, for doing so secures the pleasure of Allah.
16- Do not sit on a place higher then theirs.
17- If you maintain them, never be niggardly towards them. The way you treat them, your children treat you.
18- The most deserving of your kind ness in your mother, then your father, and know that jannah lies under the feet of mothers.
19- Never be disobedient to your parents for this in the case of misery in both worlds.
20- Ask your parents to supplicate in your favour because Allah responds to their dua for you or against you.
21- Supplicate frequently for them and ask Allah’s forgiveness for them.
22- Never cause any one to course them the prophet explained this by saying. “When a man curses another, the other would curse the means father. So be ware of this horrible sin”.
23- Remember whatever good deeds you do or accomplish, your parents will benefit from it after their death.
And remember too that the prophet said. “ You and your property belongs to your father.”
