Oh no someone help me pls!!

Umu 'Isa said:
Sis, you can go to a trustworthy sheikh. One who follows qur'an and sunnah. A trustworthy sheikh will read qur'an on you. If you are in the UK, i'm sure brothers and sisters here can suggest a sheikh for you to go to insha Allaah.

Meanwhile, listen to what everyone else has said. Get rid of the taweez asap! get rid of the drink, make du'a to Allaah, seek guidance and protection from Him, protect yourself from shaytaan by reading ayat al kursi, the 3 quls etc.. pray your 5 daily prayers on time, and try and read some qur'an every day insha Allaah.
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I haven't used any of the taweez. I'm returning it to the 'Sheikh' over the weekend, along with the duas he gave me to read.

I'm gona stick to praying (will try to pray the full 5 times a day) reading Qur'an everyday, reciting aytal kursi, surah falak, surah bakarah, the 3 quls and eating 7 ajwa dates every morning, Insha'Allah. we'll see what happens.
 
I don't even want to go to another Sheikh, I'm too scared. imsad

I can't trust no one. I'm gona stick to praying and making Dua. Insha'Allah.
 
Tanya Khan said:
I haven't got a garden. Are there any other ways to get rid of it safely? I also have a paper which he gave me, it has duas on it and I need to get rid of that too?
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If you really can't find anywhere to bury them, a plant pot will do the job inshaAllah. I'm not sure if burning is recommended. Alternatively, you can send them to me and I will get rid of them for you.



AnonymousGender said:
Who am I supposed to go to find out for sure if I have black magic done on me? And what do I do in the mean time? I'm so confused. imsad :cry:
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Sis, why do you think it's black majic? You said, "I told him how I'm depressed and got cheated on." It might be the depression hun or did you experience anything that made you think it's black majic?

But as a sis mentioned go to a reputable sheikh and he will be able to tell you if it's a jinn problem or not. May Allah keep you in His care. Ameen.
 
Scents of Jannah said:
If you really can't find anywhere to bury them, a plant pot will do the job inshaAllah. I'm not sure if burning is recommended. Alternatively, you can send them to me and I will get rid of them for you.





Sis, why do you think it's black majic? You said, "I told him how I'm depressed and got cheated on." It might be the depression hun or did you experience anything that made you think it's black majic?
But as a sis mentioned go to a reputable sheikh and he will be able to tell you if it's a jinn problem or not. May Allah keep you in His care. Ameen.
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How would I send them to you?

It must be black magic, because me and my family have a lot of enemies (relatives) who would do something like this.

I have been depressed for years. I remember making a thread last year about my depression. That was really bad, but now I’m going through it again and it’s happened to me so many times. I feel so lonely and needy, I feel I need a man in my life all the time and when he’s gone I feel lost and empty. The worst thing is that I rely on men for happiness. I always pray that Allah makes me independent from the need of others. imsad

Felt like my ex had a controller for me (like you have one for TV). When he was good to me, I was the happiest girl in the world, but when something went wrong, it was the end of the world. That’s what I don’t understand, why do I feel like that when I know I should love Allah more? I’m so ashamed to even say all this. (Istigfar) :exhausted

Then there’s my family who I’m not very close to, I don’t want to get in detail about all this as I did explain everything in my past thread, it’s too much to explain.

I’ve always been like this, hate seeing other people happy because my own life is a mess. I pray as much as I can and try to stay away from all the bad things, but I feel as though the people who are doing bad out there, (and I’m talking about Muslims) are getting all the happiness. They get into haram relationships and even get the pleasure of marrying that person. Then they think they can ask Allah forgiveness and when they are forgiven, no punishment for what they did because they sincerely repent and at the same time they get the person they want (the one they had haram relationship with). :cry:

I never get who I want in life. All my relationships end in disaster and I’m always the one who ends up in misery, the men just walk away unscathed. If I’m in a haram relationship with someone, they are to blame as much as me and should be punished too, but I’ve seen in the past it’s never happened to them, only me. I ask people who know them, how they are doing and I never hear of any complaint, all living happily.

I get headaches all the time, I feel extremely tired, everything I do is an effort, I feel so de-motivated and lifeless. My thoughts and headaches take over me while I’m praying, I can’t concentrate at all and I don’t even feel that peace that I used to feel after praying.

When I recite the Qur’an, I feel like it’s a burden, I only end up reading one page, and when I recite Surah Yaseen from the Qur’an, I read it so fast because the main thing on my mind is, ‘oh no my wudu is going to break I better read this quickly because I can’t be bothered to go and do wudu again, it’s tooo freezing to go in the bathroom.’ All these thoughts go through my mind, I get heavy headaches while reciting too.

I make mistakes and then I get angry and start huffing and puffing while reciting the Qur’an and sometimes I just give up and feel more miserable afterwards because I think Allah won’t accept my efforts to pray and recite the Qur’an, as I feel I didn’t even put no effort in.

I don’t how my life will ever change, it’s been going round in circles for years, no marriage proposals, and no one who likes me enough to marry me. I’m so alone, I don’t even have trustworthy friends, can’t talk to family. Just all alone. imsad :cry:
 
Look my darling, bad things happen to good people and good things to bad ones. But that doesn't mean it's always going to be the same. In your state of mind, you are finding it hard to focus on worship. It is good that you regret not being able to do more or do it better. But remember sweetheart, Allah loves you 70 times more than your own mother. He understands what you are going through and is way more Kind and Merciful than we could ever imagine. He gives us chance after chance to do all that which is beneficial for us. So the first thing I wanted to say was, please don't despair. Allah is your Protector, Guardian and Bestower.

Call on Him by His beautiful names and ask Him to help your affairs.

"The most beautiful names belong to God: so call on Him by them;..." (7:180)

maslan...
AL-MU'IZZ - GIVER OF HONOUR - izzat maango
AL-KARIM - THE GENEROUS ONE - nematein maango
Al-Wahhaab -The Bestower - apne Rabb ko in khoobsurat naamon se pukaar kar jo dil mein aaye maango.

http://www.jannah.org/articles/names.html


I'm not sure about the blackmajic. You've been through so much that your current state sounds like a result of it. But for your peace of mind you should consult a scholar about it. Also be aware, some pakistani masjids actually belong to sufis. However, the Surahs I mentioned earlier are more than enough to counteract effects of black majic. Have faith in Allah's kalaam hun.

As they say, "Peer bara ya yaqeen bara?!"

You have to persevere sis. Nothing changes overnight. InshaAllah slowly but surely you're life can change for the better too. But you have to tie the camel.. Matlab tumhen koshish karni paregi. And maintain faith in Allah.


I will PM you an address if you want to send me the taweez.

my love and duaas,


assalamu alaykum
 
Scents of Jannah said:
Look my darling, bad things happen to good people and good things to bad ones. But that doesn't mean it's always going to be the same. In your state of mind, you are finding it hard to focus on worship. It is good that you regret not being able to do more or do it better. But remember sweetheart, Allah loves you 70 times more than your own mother. He understands what you are going through and is way more Kind and Merciful than we could ever imagine. He gives us chance after chance to do all that which is beneficial for us. So the first thing I wanted to say was, please don't despair. Allah is your Protector, Guardian and Bestower.

Call on Him by His beautiful names and ask Him to help your affairs.

"The most beautiful names belong to God: so call on Him by them;..." (7:180)

maslan...
AL-MU'IZZ - GIVER OF HONOUR - izzat maango
AL-KARIM - THE GENEROUS ONE - nematein maango
Al-Wahhaab -The Bestower - apne Rabb ko in khoobsurat naamon se pukaar kar jo dil mein aaye maango.

http://www.jannah.org/articles/names.html


I'm not sure about the blackmajic. You've been through so much that your current state sounds like a result of it. But for your peace of mind you should consult a scholar about it. Also be aware, some pakistani masjids actually belong to sufis. However, the Surahs I mentioned earlier are more than enough to counteract effects of black majic. Have faith in Allah's kalaam hun.

As they say, "Peer bara ya yaqeen bara?!"

You have to persevere sis. Nothing changes overnight. InshaAllah slowly but surely you're life can change for the better too. But you have to tie the camel.. Matlab tumhen koshish karni paregi. And maintain faith in Allah.


I will PM you an address if you want to send me the taweez.

my love and duaas,


assalamu alaykum
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How do I find someone trustworthy?
 
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Turn to Allah in night prayer and make plenty of Dua, Read the last 3 surah's in the Quran and Surat alBaqarah. Go to an Imam who should be able to help, If he starts writing thing, asking for items of clothing etc etc... leave.

May friend is going though this at the moment and he was advised to leave everything haram, i.e credit card etc.. and practice the sunnah miswaq, nawafil prayer and so on.

Main thing to remember this can only happen by he will of Allah and Only Allah can heal you. This is a test so dont go in to shirk, out you faith in Allah.

i will keep you in my Dua
 
Civilsed said:
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Turn to Allah in night prayer and make plenty of Dua, Read the last 3 surah's in the Quran and Surat alBaqarah. Go to an Imam who should be able to help, If he starts writing thing, asking for items of clothing etc etc... leave.

May friend is going though this at the moment and he was advised to leave everything haram, i.e credit card etc.. and practice the sunnah miswaq, nawafil prayer and so on.

Main thing to remember this can only happen by he will of Allah and Only Allah can heal you. This is a test so dont go in to shirk, out you faith in Allah.

i will keep you in my Dua
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I can't be bothered to go and search for someone now, I need recommendations of a good trustworthy Imam, I haven't got time for dodgy Sheikhs anymore. Can someone not recommend anyone in the London area? My head is spinning. imsad
 
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er just a small Q while I was reading this thread. :hmm: How come we are thinking of ways to get rid of the taweez quickly (bury it, burn it, sending it to someone else to dispose of it etc). Why do we have to do anything to it? I'm asking a genuine Q, because I'm confused abt that. :><: It's just a piece of paper or a object etc, it can't harm us in and of itself. Just don't believe that it can bring u harm or good etc. Don't give it divine attributes. And all is fine. Get me?

:embarrass

okay e.g. If someone gave me a beautiful frame as a gift with the Ayaat ul Kursi written on it, to put on my wall, and said this Ayaat ul Kursi frame has the power to protect u from evil and harm etc.. and I explained to this person that to believe this is shirk, because only Allaah has that power. But I still took the Ayaat ul Kursi because it was beautiful and put it on my wall as a decoration. Not because I believe this frame, in and of itself, has the power to protect me (Because only Allaah has that power). Would that be okay? I'm not doing any shirk. I don't have to bury that frame or burn it or do anything to it. Is this correct? :hmm:

Point m trying to make is that we shouldn't be scared of the actual piece of paper, object etc that this person gave the sister as a Taweez, because it can't harm u in and of itself. If u don't believe in it and do Shirk, then its fine. Its just a piece of paper and object, like any other. If we don't believe in it, so what if its in our house? Am I making sense? If not I apologise and need someone to please clarify the issue of taweez for me? :D
 
I asked the sheikh why he told me about the future of my ex and his girlfriend, I asked him,"you told me about that guy I was seeing and the girl he's with, you said something was going to happen between them but then they will get back together. That means you were telling me about the future, only Allah knows the unseen right? So what you said can't be true, unless you were guessing?"


hHis reply, "*** prophet Muhammad (pbuh) told many things about the future as did many of his companions. I havent guessed, I know.


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^ the companions only foretold what was revealed to them by Muhammad sallallahi alaihi wasallaam.

the prophet himself sallallahi alaihi wasallaam only revealed what was revealed by Allaah.



these other people... whats their source?




if im mistaken SOMEONE PM ME SOME CORRECTION
 
Assalmu Alaikum

Im sorry to hear about your situation i can relate to it as i myself am a victim of black magic quite possibly the worst kind. I dont know what your situation is but InshaAllah il try and give you advice on how to cope and depending on where you live maybe i can give details of some real shieks that can help you instead of clowns chanting some mumbo jumbo or ones who will tell you anything just to earn a bit of money. You have to be careful about who you go to its very tricky theres so many of them that you dont know who to trust or you might even end up trusting all of them but there are some genuine ones who help you through the Quran and sunnah.

I can see alot of brothers and sisters telling you to throw the taweez and water away look people if a taweez is according to the Quran and the sunnah meaning if it has verses of the Quran then it is ok to wear i think ive even read this somewhere where the prophet (Pbuh) has said this but il dig this up. The point is what is written inside the actual taweez thats what you have to be aware of if its something good and according to the Quran then its ok to wear.

Assalamu Alaikum
 
Assalamu Alaikum

The Prophet (Pbuh) has said: There is nothing wrong with ruqyah (taweez) as long as there is no shirk in it (Saheeh Muslim)

Hadhrat Aishah (R.a) narrates that the Prophet (Pbuh) instructed her to resort to rukyah (taweez) to combat the affliction of an evil gaze (nathr). (Bukhaari)
 
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unknown_JJ said:
hey hun, chuck it in a river so that the writing washes away,

Dw, you'll be alright inshaAllaah,

You don't need Omens, when you've got Allaah (subhanahu wa ta'ala)
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Totally agree wiv you sis....

In difficult moments trust Allah, in painful moments seek Allah but in every moment Thanks Allah...

What do yu say sis..?
 
Assalmu Alaikum

Sister Aysha and all of who agree with her if you dont know anything about a certain matter then dont give someone advice on that particular matter its not about what you know its not about what you think its not about your opinions ok? its about whats true and whats correct according to the Quran and the sunnah now if you dont know anything about taweez then with alll due respect stop running your cyber mouth.
 
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