Online dating

[ahsan28]

:uhwhat

Wastage of six months. Had he diverted the same attention towards his studies, would have secured ist position.

Problems of the heart ;D

Nothing can be done

 

[Al-Zaara]

SubhanAllah... ffended: Astagfirullah!! ffended:

Those cases have 2 things in common, 1. In both it was someone close to them 2. In both cases the usernames were with the words "Sweet" and "Prince of". What a coincident. :hiding:

 

[rozeena]

If you think that is bad, check this. ffended:

err yuck!+o(

 

[Isambard]

SubhanAllah... ffended: Astagfirullah!! ffended:

Those cases have 2 things in common, 1. In both it was someone close to them 2. In both cases the usernames were with the words "Sweet" and "Prince of". What a coincident. :hiding:

Never trust someone with a cute sounding adjective in front of their name!:thumbs_up

 

[Woodrow]

Now that the shock and laughter have reached a peak. It is time to think of a constructive purpose this can have and not as simply comedy.

Keep in mind in each case each party was under the belief that the other person was who they believe.

The truth is all of the people were who they said they were, they just exposed a side of themselves they had not shown to those closest to them in person.

How, different these two scenarios would have been if all parties had been honest, had truly had the the best interest of the other as their intent, and had not tried to turn their goals into self satisfaction.

If they had all simply lived life honestly and had tried to please God(swt) rather than themselves, they could have been very happy people with genuine pure thoughts about those closest to them.

Let us not laugh at these poor misguided people, let us learn and see how easy that we can ruin lives, when we do not seek to live a pure life.

Too many of us mistake pleasure and gratification for happiness. Seek happiness first and the proper pleasures and gratification will be a part of it. Seek pleasure and gratification first and we may miss happiness.

 

[Keltoi]

I heard this story on the radio, but it didn't mention they were Muslim. The main question would be "who" they were on the internet as opposed to reality.

As Woodrow mentioned, many people think they can find what is missing in their lives somewhere "out there", instead of focusing on how to improve the lives that are right in front of them. It is actually sad if you get over the quirky way in which this marriage ended.

 

[NoName55]

Originally Posted by NoName55
I do not find it hilarious but sad sad sad. probably those 2 learned their Islam from a website,(not too unlike this one) instead of Holy Quraan and Sunnah of Prophets (may peace be upon them all)

What point are you trying to make? We can't judgde their knowledge on Islam based on this, but we can certianly make a conclusion that none of them are using common sense (accusing each other for cheating).

This thread alone should give you clue as to the calibre of this site

3 replies out out of 27 did not see their situation as tragic and laughed at them

then there this so called advice forum on this site where tens of differing answers are given, when there can only be one correct way.

More I read this site, more I think that out of the current staff only one is using COMMONSENSE, every one else seems to just love copy pasting or showing off in various other ways.

wa salam alaikum


wa salam alaikum

 

[Al-Zaara]

probably those 2 learned their Islam from a website,(not too unlike this one)

What point are you trying to make?

Selam brother, I was focusing on that part only, not the part about it being sad, because quite frankly I agreed with you on that one.

This thread alone should give you clue as to the calibre of this site

then there this so called advice forum on this site where tens of differing answers are given, when there can only be one correct way.

But some people's problems can have more ways of dealing, all of them correct in their ways.

More I read this site, more I think that out of the current staff only one is using COMMONSENSE, every one else seems to just love copy pasting or showing off in various other ways.

wa salam alaikum


wa salam alaikum

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Elhamdulillah, I myself am glad we've got uncle Woodrow who knows how to deal with hot-tempered members and other kinds of troublemakers. Elhamdulillah.

But we shouldn't go further off-topic brother, if you've got complaints about the staff, forward them to the admins or supermods, please.

Selam aleykum

 

[ISLAMASWEENEY]

lol what a ruin of a life lol

 

[Al-Zaara]

Now that the shock and laughter have reached a peak. It is time to think of a constructive purpose this can have and not as simply comedy.

Keep in mind in each case each party was under the belief that the other person was who they believe.

The truth is all of the people were who they said they were, they just exposed a side of themselves they had not shown to those closest to them in person.

How, different these two scenarios would have been if all parties had been honest, had truly had the the best interest of the other as their intent, and had not tried to turn their goals into self satisfaction.

If they had all simply lived life honestly and had tried to please God(swt) rather than themselves, they could have been very happy people with genuine pure thoughts about those closest to them.

Let us not laugh at these poor misguided people, let us learn and see how easy that we can ruin lives, when we do not seek to live a pure life.

Too many of us mistake pleasure and gratification for happiness. Seek happiness first and the proper pleasures and gratification will be a part of it. Seek pleasure and gratification first and we may miss happiness.

Actually, this is a good post to close the thread by, mashaAllah


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