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Actually if I were working in some place and someone told me this person is this and that, I would take it at face value.. people often speak from their perspective.. and people often enjoy backbiting because they have small minds...
as the adage goes:
Great minds discuss ideas; Average minds discuss events; Small minds discuss other people!
I remember when I was doing my Ob/Gyn rota, everyone was speaking really poorly of this one attending, and told me to steer clear of her path, well I treated her as I'd any other, until it became apparent to me her nature (even if they were correct) I had to go about making my own mind, plus I didn't speak of her to anyone else when they asked as to not have them go in with preconceived prejudices...
I think a general rule is, treat others as you'd have them treat you..
all the best
as the adage goes:
Great minds discuss ideas; Average minds discuss events; Small minds discuss other people!
I remember when I was doing my Ob/Gyn rota, everyone was speaking really poorly of this one attending, and told me to steer clear of her path, well I treated her as I'd any other, until it became apparent to me her nature (even if they were correct) I had to go about making my own mind, plus I didn't speak of her to anyone else when they asked as to not have them go in with preconceived prejudices...
I think a general rule is, treat others as you'd have them treat you..
all the best