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convert said:
permissible and advisable are two different things.

i mean, didn't the prophet (saw) forbid ali to take another wife while he was married to fatima?
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omg thats such a weak claim becouse ali wanted to marry the enimey of allah and his messenger he was a bitter enemy to the profhet thats why he said no
 
ardianto said:
If you want to have four wives, at first you must become a very good Muslim, then you must have a big income. If you are not a very good Muslim and you have no enough income, you better forget your plan.
Have more than one wive need a big responsibility. That's why my wive is only one and I think one wive is enough.



What...???. The money is not yours..???.
You want to marry four women and you want your dad pay everything...???.
If I am your dad, I will hang you on tomato tree !
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its a busseness and i work for him its his money but im still working
 
Why do you need 4 wives then? Isn't one enough?

you are making it for yourself even more difficult.
 
yusuf18 said:
who said its difficult
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hahahhaaaaaaaaaaaa you have definitely not been the receiver of pms :rollseyes Even men who have more than one wife acknowledge it is an extremely difficult thing. taking on one womans emotions is hard enough but taking on four? you would have to be there for them and their rants and moods and obviously take on that you would have kids from all four of them so to be there for the kids, raise them and do your bit as their father, give each woman the time she needs so she knows that you value her-youre running 4 households, running one is hard enough, its not just all about the physical side of it all....honestly brother, if you really want to marry 4 women, then fine but it is not gonna be a ride in the park and when you marry just one woman you will realise that.

my plan is to marry one over here and trap her and marry the rest back home
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the way you said that, youre going to trap a woman into something like this? you dont deserve even one wife if that is your mentality :)
 
amani said:
hahahhaaaaaaaaaaaa you have definitely not been the receiver of pms :rollseyes Even men who have more than one wife acknowledge it is an extremely difficult thing. taking on one womans emotions is hard enough but taking on four? you would have to be there for them and their rants and moods and obviously take on that you would have kids from all four of them so to be there for the kids, raise them and do your bit as their father, give each woman the time she needs so she knows that you value her-youre running 4 households, running one is hard enough, its not just all about the physical side of it all....honestly brother, if you really want to marry 4 women, then fine but it is not gonna be a ride in the park and when you marry just one woman you will realise that.


the way you said that, youre going to trap a woman into something like this? you dont deserve even one wife if that is your mentality :)[/QUOTE and no i will not have kids with all of them and in a way i will be only haveing 1 wife becouse the 1 becouse the rest back home are islamicly correct and it doesnt take to much to please them in money terms and yes i do agrea that haveing 4 wives here will be difficult but back home its a peace of cake
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amani said:
hahahhaaaaaaaaaaaa you have definitely not been the receiver of pms :rollseyes Even men who have more than one wife acknowledge it is an extremely difficult thing. taking on one womans emotions is hard enough but taking on four? you would have to be there for them and their rants and moods and obviously take on that you would have kids from all four of them so to be there for the kids, raise them and do your bit as their father, give each woman the time she needs so she knows that you value her-youre running 4 households, running one is hard enough, its not just all about the physical side of it all....honestly brother, if you really want to marry 4 women, then fine but it is not gonna be a ride in the park and when you marry just one woman you will realise that.


the way you said that, youre going to trap a woman into something like this? you dont deserve even one wife if that is your mentality :)[/QUOTE and no i will not have kids with all of them and in a way i will be only haveing 1 wife becouse the 1 becouse the rest back home are islamicly correct and it doesnt take to much to please them in money terms and yes i do agrea that haveing 4 wives here will be difficult but back home its a peace of cake
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and no i will not have kids with all of them and in a way i will be only haveing 1 wife becouse the are rest back home and are islamicly correct and it doesnt take to much to please them (in money terms) and they not influenced by the west and yes i do agrea that haveing 4 wives here will be difficult but back home its a peace of cake
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woaaah blud easy tiger :p

why do the wifes have to be virgins lol? seems like your fantasys are gettin the better of you, marry one and see how it goes, then think about 4 :D
 
Sahabiyaat said:
no no
noooooooooooooo :enough!:
this is affecting all of you

YOU MEN! ...degenerate specie.....+o(
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let him get one wife and then see what he says. i have a feeling that habibi will change his tune quick, fast, and in a hurry.
 
convert said:
let him get one wife and then see what he says. i have a feeling that habibi will change his tune quick, fast, and in a hurry.
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A pogues quote, "two wives are allowed in the army, but ones too many for me"
 
he's gonna look back at himself one of these days and have a huge fit of laughter.
 
yusuf18 said:
oyea nothink funny about it from were im from its our culture so its the norm for us rofl
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cool.If its the norm, just make sure u treat um right.Allah is wathcing you brother.All the best
peace out (of this thread). :w:
 
yusuf18 said:
oyea nothink funny about it from were im from its our culture so its the norm for us rofl
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good on you bro, as long as theres brothers like you the rest of us get a bit extrapeace and quiet, knock ur self out my friend u just helpurself
 
yusuf18 said:
yusuf18 said:
and no i will not have kids with all of them and in a way i will be only haveing 1 wife becouse the are rest back home and are islamicly correct and it doesnt take to much to please them (in money terms) and they not influenced by the west and yes i do agrea that haveing 4 wives here will be difficult but back home its a peace of cake
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That post in itself tells me that you won't be able to treat the four equally. You don't need the West to teach a woman to have kids; you don't need the West to teach a woman the need for love, security and support; and you most certainly don't need the West to teach a woman desire.

A woman, in Pakistan or in the West, is a mother, a wife, a lover. She does not need the society to teach her that.

You, akhee, don't understand women at all. And you want four. *snorts*
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You're still a boy; it's too early to be thinking about this sorta stuff. Concentrate on your studies for now, son, and I can assure you that by the time you're mature enough to get married, you won't be thinking this way. Unless of course you ended up being another sorry excuse for a man whose brain is situated in a certain body part that is definately not his head, then all I can do is pray the poor women you try to con into marrying you aren't as foolish as you are n send you home with a good kick where it hurts. And I hope - although I doubt - you will then understand that there's more to marriage than what you have in mind...

Good luck, bro :X
 
yusuf18 said:
even tho i dont need her concent to marry again
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Is that true?
I always thought a man was supposed to ask his wife's permission to marry more wives ...
 
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