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.actually...its quite a common practice
one back home to look after ur folks and one here to look after your kids, and a girlfriend to look after you.
*sigh* how women are abused for being women...
 
glo said:
I see.

Would the husband be required to tell each wife about the others ... or could he have 4 wives without each of them knowing about each other?
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well he doesnt have to 'tell' her but islamically a marriage must be announced and made public so the wife will have to know, plus in sharing their time, the wife would again have to know so yes the wives pretty much would know about each other unless the man is a total ..... and keeps his wife as a mistress :)

subanallah wake up sister why would he neeed her permision when he has got it from ALLAH the most great subannalah stick to the sunnah
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hahaha why dont you stick to the sunnah and start thinking about women as human beings with feelings?
 
The Prophet said: 'I was shown the Hell Fire and the majority of its dwellers were women who are disbelievers or ungrateful.' When asked what they were ungrateful for, the Prophet answered, 'All the favors done for them by their husbands.'" so be grateful and women theses days ask for to much
 
yusuf18 said:
no sorry your wrong maybe my english is not good becouse its my second langue and im 18 and muture so its not right you calling me 14
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your english has nothing to do with the fact that ur speaking total crap.
 
amani said:
well he doesnt have to 'tell' her but islamically a marriage must be announced and made public so the wife will have to know, plus in sharing their time, the wife would again have to know so yes the wives pretty much would know about each other unless the man is a total ..... and keeps his wife as a mistress :)



hahaha why dont you stick to the sunnah and start thinking about women as human beings with feelings?
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ofcourse i think women as human beings thats such an absurd statment the simple fact is all men are hungry wolves some hide it better so sisters are like the catch has to be the best one so sisters beware of men never trust them and give your heart before marriage
 
yusuf18 said:
The Prophet said: 'I was shown the Hell Fire and the majority of its dwellers were women who are disbelievers or ungrateful.' When asked what they were ungrateful for, the Prophet answered, 'All the favors done for them by their husbands.'" so be grateful and women theses days ask for to much
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you want to quote?

But if you fear that you will not be able to do justice (among them), then (marry) only one
4:3

the way you speak you do not plan on being just to them AT all

Narrated AbuHurayrah: The Prophet (peace_be_upon_him) said: When a man has two wives and he is inclined to one of them, he will come on the Day of resurrection with a side hanging down.
Abu Dawud
 
yusuf18 said:
ofcourse i think women as human beings thats such an absurd statment the simple fact is all men are hungry wolves some hide it better so sisters are like the catch has to be the best one so sisters beware of men never trust them and give your heart before marriage
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thanks for that advice ill sure remember it in the future :rollseyes
with your thinking women shouldnt give their hearts even after marriage...
 
amani said:
you want to quote?

But if you fear that you will not be able to do justice (among them), then (marry) only one
4:3

the way you speak you do not plan on being just to them AT all

Narrated AbuHurayrah: The Prophet (peace_be_upon_him) said: When a man has two wives and he is inclined to one of them, he will come on the Day of resurrection with a side hanging down.
Abu Dawud
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subnallah so the profhet contradicted him self when he said to allah ./o allah this is what i can do so dont blame me of something i dont have control over which is the heart ./ and subnallah truth prevails falsehood allah says (And you have it not in your power to do justice between wives, even though you may wish (it), but be not disinclined (from one) with total disinclination, so that you leave her as it were in suspense; and if you effect a reconciliation and guard (against evil), then surely Allah is Forgiving, Merciful.) so as long as i dont divorce her and leave her hanging its ok
 
yusuf18 said:
subnallah so the profhet contradicted him self when he said to allah ./o allah this is what i can do so dont blame me of something i dont have control over which is the heart ./ and subnallah truth prevails falsehood allah says (And you have it not in your power to do justice between wives, even though you may wish (it), but be not disinclined (from one) with total disinclination, so that you leave her as it were in suspense; and if you effect a reconciliation and guard (against evil), then surely Allah is Forgiving, Merciful.) so as long as i dont divorce her and leave her hanging its ok
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actually Muhammed :arabic5: gave absolute justice to his wives so wrong again. He treated them equally and gave them all their rights and time and was there for them when they needed him emotionally or otherwise. you plan on having three wives back home 'hanging' from the way you speak so dont you dare compare your thinking to the way Muhammed :arabic5: were with his wives.
 
Güven said:
I may understand the "never trust men" part.

but how can you say ALL men are hungry wolves?
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we all know that men have the tendency to become a hungry wolf some hide it better then otheres and otheres not so well
 
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