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Sorry to butt in here, salam aleiykum (ducks to avoid flying pot) slightly off topic but this reminds for some reason of the revelation re end of days where 1 man will look after 10 women. Perhaps our brother is young and naive but I dont think he is nescessarilly wrong. ok m gone continue your fight+o(
 
amani said:
actually Muhammed :arabic5: gave absolute justice to his wives so wrong again. He treated them equally and gave them all their rights and time and was there for them when they needed him emotionally or otherwise. you plan on having three wives back home 'hanging' from the way you speak so dont you dare compare your thinking to the way Muhammed :arabic5: were with his wives.
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and dont you dare compare your thinking like the mothers of the belevers
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TKTony said:
Sorry to butt in here, salam aleiykum (ducks to avoid flying pot) slightly off topic but this reminds for some reason of the revelation re end of days where 1 man will look after 10 women. Perhaps our brother is young and naive but I dont think he is nescessarilly wrong. ok m gone continue your fight+o(
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its not about him being wrong brother, in all honesty im not the 'anti polygamy' type at all its the way he speaks of women that has me so riled up and its people like him who have sisters thinking that men wanting to marry more than once are total pricks
 
And you have it not in your power to do justice between wives, even though you may wish (it), but be not disinclined (from one) with total disinclination, so that you leave her as it were in suspense; and if you effect a reconciliation and guard (against evil), then surely Allah is Forgiving, Merciful.)
 
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and dont you dare compare your thinking like the mothers of the belevers
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LOL did i say that you wanting to marry more than once is wrong dear brother.
Its your intention and the way you speak of your future wives that has me :raging:
 
amani said:
LOL did i say that you wanting to marry more than once is wrong dear brother.
Its your intention and the way you speak of your future wives that has me :raging:
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may allah make you one day in a polgamy relationship ameen::thumbs_up
 
yusuf18 said:
And you have it not in your power to do justice between wives, even though you may wish (it), but be not disinclined (from one) with total disinclination, so that you leave her as it were in suspense; and if you effect a reconciliation and guard (against evil), then surely Allah is Forgiving, Merciful.)
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with regards to matters of the heart or on spending time with them and spending on them?
 
yusuf18 said:
regaring heart and makeing love spending ofcourse has to be fair
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and you have said you would deprive 3 of your back home wives from kids. and you will keep them back home too, so how would you divide your time between two countries realistically?
 
AhlaamBella said:
WHAT??? Bro are u for real?? Or are u just some mI5 agents wasting our time making fun of Islam?
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subanallah walhi you are wrong im a student of islam and want to become sheikh how dare you say im not muslim allah is watching you and i would never never never make fun of islam and i havent
 
yusuf18 said:
subanallah walhi you are wrong im a student of islam and want to become sheikh how dare you say im not muslim allah is watching you
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Did I say u arn't muslim??

And just so u know, the stuff u have been spitting out sure doesn't sound like Islam to me
 
Easy guys it not befitting that we fight like this, nonmuslims will be put off, why not agree to differ, wish each other peace and quit this argument. Allah knows best is all we need to agree on. Peace
 
There's nothing wrong with polygamy in Islam. As far as rules of the land, that's a whole different issue. Having more than 1 wife also has rulings, though. Such as being just and equal with each one... Personally, I don't think I'm capable of doing that by nature.
 
TKTony said:
Easy guys it not befitting that we fight like this, nonmuslims will be put off, why not agree to differ, wish each other peace and quit this argument. Allah knows best is all we need to agree on. Peace
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You're right brother. I just don't want the non-muslims on the forum thinking ideas bro yusuf have are promoted or permissible in Islam. It isn't good Da'wah
 
yusuf18 said:
we all know that men have the tendency to become a hungry wolf some hide it better then otheres and otheres not so well
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Im Going to become a wolf now.

A thread closing Wolf.:rollseyes


Seriously this is going nowhere, There is been given enough advice.

If the brother really wants this then May Allah SWT Grant the Brother SABR and (a) Successful marriage(s), Ameen.


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