Please don't judge

[muslimwithfaith]

I was going through the net and found this website. I thought people here might be able to help. I have a problem. well, two problems.
1. whenever i make dua, i get the feeling that it won't be accepted. I think of x and y situations where it didn't happen the way i wanted and this time it would be the same. I know these are waswas, but i can't seem to battle them off. esp during salah, the feeling is the strongest.
2. I am thankless. I know this is the worst thing one can say about themselves. but i've realised i am always complaining. Whatever God sends my way, i will complain and think about what I don't have. how do i fight this feelin.

 

[Imraan]

I was going through the net and found this website. I thought people here might be able to help. I have a problem. well, two problems.
1. whenever i make dua, i get the feeling that it won't be accepted. I think of x and y situations where it didn't happen the way i wanted and this time it would be the same. I know these are waswas, but i can't seem to battle them off. esp during salah, the feeling is the strongest.
2. I am thankless. I know this is the worst thing one can say about themselves. but i've realised i am always complaining. Whatever God sends my way, i will complain and think about what I don't have. how do i fight this feelin.

most of us were where you are right now. Just accept qadr of Allah, be the best version of yourself and be the best muslim person you can, attending salah, support your family and friends and see your days through being grateful for everything you have. if it helps i always remind myself of the calamities i dont have or havent experienced, immediately i feel content with what i do have and am very thankful. you should often give charity, help people and visit the sick.

take each day as it comes, it is what it is. thats they way of my life.