plz help

[Ummu Sufyaan]

i feel down and depressed! im in love with a guy who is very religiously commited. i dnt no what 2 do about it! i have prayed and prayed and made dua to Allah asking Him to get us together. inshallah plz give me adice

*smiles*
i think you ought to stop wishful thinking, and get practical lol i mean take steps...talk to someone, see if hes interested in you...dont just sit and hope that he'll come to you, when he has no idea how you feel

but it feels as though its not gna happen!

why's that? there have been a few things in my life that i thought would never happen, but i ignored them feelings and made plenty of dua and ta daaa they became a reality alhamdulillah lol

but nah sis, take the next step inshallah...speak to your family, etc...

 

[sirajstc]

how is age matter??

 

[Gia]

i feel down and depressed! im in love with a guy who is very religiously commited. i dnt no what 2 do about it! i have prayed and prayed and made dua to Allah asking Him to get us together. inshallah plz give me adice

You shouldn't be depressed sister, be sure that if this is the best thing for you then Allah will make it happen.

 

[ardianto]

umm..I think you might be a bit confused^

"anonymousgender" is an account every user may access if they wish to post anonymously,it is not one specific person

username: anonymous
password: islamicboard

Ooh. I dont know that. I'm a new member.
Thank you very much.

 

[AnonymousPoster]

Jazakallah for the replies!
inshallah i will take my time and just think about this, and focuse on others things for now inshallah ...and the brother who asked about the beard? why is dat? anyways im sorry for taking so long to reply....thank u all from the bottom of my heart

 

[Hamza Asadullah]

i feel down and depressed! im in love with a guy who is very religiously commited. i dnt no what 2 do about it! i have prayed and prayed and made dua to Allah asking Him to get us together. but it feels as though its not gna happen! inshallah plz give me adice

Asalaam wr wb my sister in Islam these are the results that come out of relationships! When one enters a relationship then they are acknowledging the fact that a relationship is not a guarantee for marrige but of course it is a risk! You took the risk sister and now your so hurt just like SO many people have been and still are! This is why relationships before marrige are haraam sister but this does not deter many people! Everything in islam is the best for us and the best for every aspect of our lives!
Sister you have asked Allah now leave it to him there is no point wasting your time praying for the same thing because your ONLY meant to worship Allah and not pray to him just because you want to be with that guy! If Allah wills then it will happen and if not then it is best for you that your not with him! Allah knows best sister so leave it to him now and concentrate on investing for your akhirat! You can't also ask Allah for that which is haram you can ask that you want to marry him ONLY nothing else and if it does'nt happen sister than theres nothing that can be done life goes on and you will DEFINATLEY find someone better who was meant for you but please do it the right way! Maybe this is a way of you getting closer to Allah! Everything happens for the best sister! If you need any more advice or help then please don't hesitate to ask! Allah hafiz