Question regarding muslim women.

[Nσσя'υℓ Jαииαн]

Lol what are u getting mad about. I said it calmly and the bro didnt seem to get offended by my post. And again, I'm not being rude, so u shouldnt either Btw the OP is a bro. I'm not trying to be mean or anything. I just wrote what I thought and I understand why he is the way he is.

Thanks

 

[Salahudeen]

I'm not getting mad, I'm completely calm, and who said I was talking about your post directly?? I don't recall saying you were being rude?? and sorry if you found my post rude you obviously understood it wrongly.

I just meant it doesn't take 10 people or however much it was to point out he made a generalization. Or should I say repeat the word generalization lol.

^ I didn't say the bro got offended by it, he could be laughing and playing the game "count how many times you see the word generalization" lol

 

[Nσσя'υℓ Jαииαн]

^ what should she give credit for, all i've read is the word "generalization" over and over, it's like the number 1 word in this thread, it doesn't require 10 people to point out she made a generalization does it.

Gimme a break will ya. I duno bout anyone else but I wasnt trying to scrutinize, I just thought it was odd and unfair. THat doesnt mean I dont understand why he is the way he is. And I didnt blame him I only advised. I didnt repeat the word either. I said it once nicely and gave examples why its not the case.

 

[Salahudeen]

^ don't need to justify yourself to me lol it is indeed unfair to say all Muslim women cheat but the op was obviously letting his emotions get the better of him due to the fact that his friend was going through this. I don't think you were trying to scrutinize him, I don't think you were blaming him. I jus said it's funny the amount of people who wrote generalization lol

 

[Nσσя'υℓ Jαииαн]

Ook well I'd like to apologize anyway in case I may have said anything wrong, that includes u too

 

[Woodrow]

Each of us is human. As a result that which we see or experience is what we see as our world. If we only know two women and they cheat on their husbands in our view all women do. That is not a wrong view it is simply incomplete. None of us have a true picture of the whole world each of us has a limited window through which we perceive our world. With time and searching we can find more windows and expand our views, but we are still limited to our own view points.

By expressing our view points we can elicit the views of other people and through them we expand our views. It is far better we speak of what angers us and learn from others how wide or narrow our own views are. But, we must always remember that no matter how broad our views are, they are still limited and while correct for what we see they are not complete as what we do not see may be the exact opposite.

 

[Ansariyah]

Wen people stop fearing Allah
they lose their Imaan
they forget Akhirah
everything bad becomes easy.

This is for men & women, shaytan does not discriminate.

 

[mahfuja]

Why is it that I always see muslim women cheating on their husbands when the husband has been good to them in every possible way. I don't understand this at all. Why are muslim women now adays always requesting a divorce over simple problems or saying they don't love their husband anymore and want to marry another men?

I am just furious about this! I don't know if people have noticed anything lately, but this is just getting out of hand. A friend of mine's mother had cheated on her husband and left everything for some another man, who she "loves a lot". What is this nonsense??????

It just brings back my old days bad image regarding marriage and women in general. How do I even tell someone who is planning to get married, oh no they won't cheat, their "awesome and great"? When the reality isn't so good..

I just feel really down about this. Seeing my friend and how the family just fell apart. I don't even want to think about it, I just no longer feel like trusting anyone.

:wa:

Bro you just generalised muslim women into one category! you repetitivley using the word "always" seems like you know all the women in this world ... its an unfair judgement to make!

its like when people say "all muslims are terrorists" due to mistakes of a few ignorant people!

 

[Salahudeen]

and to add do that, don't generalize LOOL j/k

 

[Alphadude]

i have seen alot of stuff like this happening wife is cheating and husband is cheating iswell but in my view it starts from some were and there is a good reason why it happens and most of this kinda stuff happens in none muslim countrys but in my view women has its own needs and that should be done and some question still remains as why?

 

[convert]

1. stop forcing women into marring men they cant stand, take care of her and her needs and maybe she wont think of cheating.

2. take a reality check, get over your ego's becuase are you trying to tell me Muslim men don't cheat on their wives?

1. stop allowing yourselves to be slaves to culture

2. no excuse for men to do this either, especially when there is the permission for up to 4 wives

i see plenty of this going on too. it seems to be a western-muslimah phenomenon though. allahu alam.

the hudood is there for a reason in this case. infidelity destroys families.

 

[Ummu Sufyaan]

1. stop allowing yourselves to be slaves to culture

we don't have a choice. "marry so and so or else i'll boot you out of home and you'll have no where to go" what else is one meant to do?

2. no excuse for men to do this either, especially when there is the permission for up to 4 wives

or the command to lower your gaze. (not to disagree with you on the permissibility of 4 wives)

i see plenty of this going on too. it seems to be a western-muslimah phenomenon though. allahu alam.

what do you mean :?

 

[Ummu Sufyaan]

For the record sis, you shouldn't reply when you have anger.

even if i was replying in anger, it doesn't make my point less valid.

I never said men don't cheat.

but you weren't exactly willing to point it out either.

I don't have an ego problem, but you certainly seem like you do. I never said men don't cheat. Your going way off topic and attacking me, think before you say something sister.

i didn't say you did. i was speaking generally. and attacking? look whose talking.

 

[GuestFellow]

I think we can all agree both Muslim husbands and Muslim wives do some bad things. : o