Questions to ask.

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Ladies, I think you can ask every single question to him that has been asked since time began on Earth - but you will still not know the man. Some people have been known to say one thing when they meet you, but change their minds or thinking later on. The questions are very little to go by.
I'm not saying everyone will lie, but sometimes, ...people want to 'market' themselves and give answers others might WANT to hear. So dont go all googy eyed based on answers. Istikhara is the key, after the interview.

Peace
 
thats brilliant advice F.Y, i think a'mal is most important, if you have a way to find out about that then do so.


but questions are important when it comes to closing in on compatibility...
 
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Like FY said, people can give you answers that you want to hear and not necessarily what is the truth. I suggest that you just meet him and talk to him like you would a friend and if you find that you could see yourself living with him for the rest of your life, stick with him.

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This is great advice sisters (and brother lol). JazakAllah Kheir. I usually find after I've prayed for guidence in any situation, my gut instinct isn't wrong Alhamdulilah
 
If he can take an advice from a woman or he is too "man" to listen them :-[
 
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i dont know if this has been said but ask him what he expects in a wife/or what kind of wife he is looking for
 
Ladies, I think you can ask every single question to him that has been asked since time began on Earth - but you will still not know the man. Some people have been known to say one thing when they meet you, but change their minds or thinking later on. The questions are very little to go by.
I'm not saying everyone will lie, but sometimes, ...people want to 'market' themselves and give answers others might WANT to hear. So dont go all googy eyed based on answers. Istikhara is the key, after the interview.

Peace

Masha Allah your advice is the best sister. Alhamdulilah i find myself changing my views as time goes by....
 
I'm not saying everyone will lie, but sometimes, ...people want to 'market' themselves and give answers others might WANT to hear. So dont go all googy eyed based on answers. Istikhara is the key, after the interview.

Peace

that is a really good advice!
 
Erm every question i have thought of has already been mentioned lol.. just thought i wud add 1.. ask the brother if he has any medical problems?
 

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