umm-sulaim
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Oh I didn't know that one!!
For those who dont understand Arabic it means "And when he seeks advice then Advise him"
Ok next Question :
Give me some Hadeeth which show it is allowed to show discomfort at pain (e.g. saying ouch this hurts!! :giggling![]()
Ok, sis mawaddah,
hadeeth jaabir when the prophet entered upon umm saa'ib and she had a fever and the prophet alayhi salaatu wassalam said, whats wrong with you? she replied the fever may Allah digrace it, the prophet said don't say that for verily it removes the faults of the muslim...rawaahu muslim.
ok hadeeth Aisha radhiyaAllahu anhaa that when her father Abu Bakr radhiyaAllahu anhu would feel ill she would ask how are you o my father, and when the fever overtook him he would say:
everyone enters the morning with his family
and death is under his shoe laces
and Bilaal in the same hadeeth would raise his voice and say a poem, talking about the valleys of medina (they were homesick)
Bukhaari made a chapter in adab al mufrad (chapter: is the saying of the sick one: "verily i am in pain" complaining?
Then under that he mentioned hadeeth when asmaa bint abee bakr was sick and it was 10 days before her son Abdullahi bin zubair was killed, abdullah said to her, how are you, she said, verily i am in pain.
als hadeeth abee sa3eedin alkhudhree, that when he entered upon the prophet alayhi salaatu wasslam, he had a blanket on him, abu sa3eed put his hand on him, then he said o messenger of Allah what a strong fever you have, the prophet alayhi salaatu wasssalam said, verily we are like that (prophets) our trials are greater and rewards are doubled...alhadeeth
This shows us that Bukhaari rahimahullah sees its permissable to do this as he mentioned ahadeeth answering the heading positively, and didn't bring ahadeeth that showed we can't. (let me knoe if you get what i'm saying)
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Hadeeth aisha too, when she cried over the prophet (when he was dying) he alayhi salaatu wassalaam said, laa ilaaha illa laah inna fil mawti lasakaraat.
There is no God but Allah, verily in death theres agony.
Like bro mentioned it can't involving complaining about fate (tassakhut bi agdaarillaah), and saying things like o why me etc.
I hope that answered your question sis maw.