Why has my message been moved "keeping it hot" to the sisters section? I was genuinely and desperately asking for advice and you tell me I should go to the sister's section. I am new to the forum and am not able to use this section yet as you well know. What is the point of posting my message there and people reply and I can't even see their advice! I wanted a brother's perspective since they would know how men think and feel and give me advice on how to keep ones husband interested from an islamic perspective. I needed this advice MOST urgently and am so disappointed.