Rude to my dad

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A few times i have been rude to my dad and now i feel like im destined for hell.

My dad shouts at me for not managing to work, cook and clean effociently.

Since corona life hes been shouting at me every other day despite me doing my best.

Anyways i literally had enough so i said some nasty things back.

The last few times i said stuff i apologised for it but now i dont even feel like apologising because ive never done anything wrong and i dont want to say bad things back but it just comes out in Anger.

Please advise me

 

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Assalamu Alaikum

You already know how much Allah puts parents in high esteem and that we shouldn't even say "uff" to them.

You shouldn't fight wrong with wrong. Be kind and dutiful to your parents. If you feel upset then just find a way to release your stress without disrespecting them. After your work try to spend time with him maybe it will soften his heart. Perhaps he is stressed out and is venting his frustrations on you, which isn't right, but make excuses for him because you can't understand him.