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julie sarri

julie sarri

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:sl: just wanted to know i have tryed realy hard in my area in north london to make muslima friends i'm a english revert i smile at all the muslimas in the street most of them dont always smile back i just dont have eney sisters as friends i wear hijaab and pray 5 times a day is it becouse i'm a white muslima i just dont know what i'm doing wrong:'( :w:
 
Salam sister. I honestly cant see why people are blanking you. Correct me if im wrong, but it is near enough obligatory for someony to reply back to an offering of salam. Did you have any contact with muslimas before you came to Islam? And secondly if you ever go to any islamic lectures, try and speak to some muslimas there and slowl build up a relationship. InshAllah it will be made easy for. Salam.
 
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Aww sis, i totally understand how you feel. When i first became muslim i felt exactlly how you felt. When i smiled at sisters they would never smile back etc. Do you go to the masjid? When i used to go to the masjid nobody would speak to me untill i just forced my self to talk, and it turned out that they were as shy as i was. Do you have any muslim friends that you could talk to?
 
salam
innallah ma as sabireen
sis have patience and allah will surely will reward you inshallah
wasalam
 
Sorry i might have misread your post. I thought you said you gave them sala. But regardless if one has any kind of love for the sake of islam [muslimah] they would most likely smile back. And i dont think its co your white. I find that white muslims/reverts get more attention and smiles/salam ect than other muslims. so no i dont think its cos of your colour.
 
Im sure there must be loads of Muslimah on this site who would love to be your friend/sister.
 
DaNgErOuS MiNdS said:
Im sure there must be loads of Muslimah on this site who would love to be your friend/sister.
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but its nice to hav some who you can talk to and share company with as neighbours if you know what i mean

anyway sister as said before innallaha maa asabireen!! (Allah is with those who are patient). I hope you have a million sisters in jannah :)

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go get invovled in any sister talks or activities in your local masjid, also try attending jumuah in a place which accommodates for sisters. inshallah and hopefully im sure the sisters you meet will accept you with open arms.

wa'alykumasalam
 
julie sarri said:
:sl: just wanted to know i have tryed realy hard in my area in north london to make muslima friends i'm a english revert i smile at all the muslimas in the street most of them dont always smile back i just dont have eney sisters as friends i wear hijaab and pray 5 times a day is it becouse i'm a white muslima i just dont know what i'm doing wrong:'( :w:
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awwww not to worry sister...:)

North London???....hmmmmm

I'll help you out...

Open up your private message sis....I've sent you a PM :)
 
^^^

Alhamdulilaah for our sisterhood!

By the way Julie...starting psoting away so you can get acess to the sister's section Insha Allah :D
 
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Sister i feel for you. I also live in North London. I will pm you now inshallah. You dont have to be sad when you have thousand and thousands of loving sisters.
 
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lol..I am dyslexic i think. I meant..I also live in North London.

Sister Julia..I pmed you and inshallah..you wont be sad any longer Inshallah. I love reading too and i mus have thousand Islamic books to lend it to you. It will be a pleasure dear sis.
 
swanlake said:
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lol..I am dyslexic i think. I meant..I also live in North London.

Sister Julia..I pmed you and inshallah..you wont be sad any longer Inshallah. I love reading too and i mus have thousand Islamic books to lend it to you. It will be a pleasure dear sis.
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hahaha i wasn't talking about the way you wrote sisters! I didn't know you live in North London:X

Talking of books.....They are the best of friends you can have:)
 
julie sarri said:
:sl: just wanted to know i have tryed realy hard in my area in north london to make muslima friends i'm a english revert i smile at all the muslimas in the street most of them dont always smile back i just dont have eney sisters as friends i wear hijaab and pray 5 times a day is it becouse i'm a white muslima i just dont know what i'm doing wrong:'( :w:
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have patience and it wil b alright
 
julie sarri said:
:sl: just wanted to know i have tryed realy hard in my area in north london to make muslima friends i'm a english revert i smile at all the muslimas in the street most of them dont always smile back i just dont have eney sisters as friends i wear hijaab and pray 5 times a day is it becouse i'm a white muslima i just dont know what i'm doing wrong:'( :w:
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Asalamu Alaikum sister:

I know in the beginning it's difficult. Just realize something. Those Muslimas you speak of did not smile back at you but Allah Ta'ala is pleased with you and your intentions. Sister, do not feel sad. Those who make you feel isolated do not realize that Muslims come in every color under the sun, speaking different languages and from all the corners of the world. We have a very diverse Ummah, Alhamdulillah. For those who may not realize it, just make du'a that Allah Ta'ala will open their hearts, Inshallah.

I'm all the way in New York but yes, the Sister Brigade is to the rescue :muslimah:
 
julie sarri said:
:sl: just wanted to know i have tryed realy hard in my area in north london to make muslima friends i'm a english revert i smile at all the muslimas in the street most of them dont always smile back i just dont have eney sisters as friends i wear hijaab and pray 5 times a day is it becouse i'm a white muslima i just dont know what i'm doing wrong:'( :w:
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As-salamu Alaykum,

Sis, I am sorry to hear that you are having a hard time!! When first converted I would sometimes get the same thing but I knew why I was having trouble ( you see, I don't cover and I think the sisters weren't sure what to make of me...like maybe I was kufar just making fun, ya know?). You said that you cover so I really don't know why this is happening unless our sisters are very shy...Sometimes its hard to make friends with strangers on the street so try making friends at the masjid, but don't stop greeting those you see out in public.
And I just want you to know that you have a friend right here (ME!!:sister: ).....
 
i'll be your friend sista :D
dont worry, as time goes by u'll get more n more friends
4 now, pick me as ur friend :)
 

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