I need help please im 31 years old i have had a problem with my ears they bug me i cant seem to mske anybody happy because im not happy myself inside my left ear is bigger then the right i feel very lonely and i dont feel happy inside what should i do my brothers thanks 10 years i have been very lonely i have no confidence best advice please jazakallah
Salam im naz from Ireland
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I fear Allah and i would never do surgery to push them in because Allah made me like this for a reason but why do i feel unhappy inside i was married for 7 years and now im divorced i find it hard to make anybody happy i try my best to make Allah happy i wish i find a woman to marry that excepts me the way i look i sometimes feel very lonely inside and afraid to do anything in life.
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bro , Welcome here.
may Allah bless u with a pious partner and bless ur marriage . Don't be upset and try to accept life as it is .
bro , Welcome here.
may Allah bless u with a pious partner and bless ur marriage . Don't be upset and try to accept life as it is .
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I've known a guy with such a condition. He never had any problem socializing with people, and was good company to be around. I'm no longer in touch with him, but he, definitely, had a boatload of friends. The barrier which you seem to be facing is more psychological than you'd like to admit. Step up and stop "trying to please" people, just be yourself, and offer honesty. You will win friends inshaAllah, and won't feel so cornered.
I've known a guy with such a condition. He never had any problem socializing with people, and was good company to be around. I'm no longer in touch with him, but he, definitely, had a boatload of friends. The barrier which you seem to be facing is more psychological than you'd like to admit. Step up and stop "trying to please" people, just be yourself, and offer honesty. You will win friends inshaAllah, and won't feel so cornered.
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Assalamaualaikum, brother Naz
If you live near me we can meet and be friend, and like other people, I would not have any problem with your ears. So bro, if people do not have problem with your ears, why you think your ears become a problem for other people?.
As long as you do not judge a woman by her physical apperance, Insha Allah, there's always a woman who will accept you as a husband.
