School Vs. Islam?

Aslamu aleykum sister,
if the teacher is making you go to this trip and you really have to in order to get the marks....I think you should go if you have tried everything else. Allah knows your intentions and you know your intentions, don't pay no mind to anybody do the work that you were told to do and leave. But just make sure you stay firm and remember that the environment is haram and your there for only one reason and thats to do your assignment. I hope that helps...inshallah everything will go well.
 
Bint Mas`ood said:
yeah man, I KNOW what u mean. there's this guy in my class his name's MUHAMMAD musa, like c'mon have some respect for ur name, and he was actually suggesting possible bars to check out. I was like whoa! did NOT expect that from u, I actually thot u were decent. But yeah, I guess he doesnt have a problem with this whole assignment. I wish things could be as easy as the solutions u guys gave- copy a classmates (yeah and get expelled outta school :p ), write about bars and whats wrong with them (the only thing is that we have to observe how ppl interact with e/o in a social environment, which also means that a musjid is a no-no cuz i need to see ppl checking eachother out- like what usually happens in a bar scene to see how ppl communicate in different settings) but the weird thing is that my teacher's actually cool about ppl not going, he's just really insistent on u finding another place to observe ppl in thier natural habitat (and yes, this is for psychology class). But yeah, anyone have any other suggestions to observe ppl in a social environment? Jazakallah khairun

:w:

hmm yeah luks can be deceive as well as the identity as a muslim anywhere thats gud that yo teacher has given you a choice as to which environment u can write yo assignment on...y don't you choose 4rom the following;

a) school/college/uni

b) any workplace e.g hospital/office..etc

c) supermarkets

d) Library

e) masjid? ;)

hope that helps
 
Salam Alaikum,
In my school swimming is the mandatory portion of the physical education class. I remember my friend told the teacher that wearing bathing suites wasn't allowed so she was given an assignment to do instead. It is a free country no one will force you to do anything that you don't have to do.
 
really good suggestions everyone. But I guess I wasnt too clear about what we have to look for. The reason why he chose the bar scene cuz thats where ppl go to flirt, hang out, hook up, etc. so he wants us to observe body language, gestures, the way ppl speak with one another, etc. other places R pretty hard to observe this type of behaviour, but I guess school can be one cuz its pretty disgusting watching guys stare at girls. sometimes when im waiting at a certain place like for the previous class to get outta my class, I watch the guy's stare at girls. its soooooo degrading i dunno HOW these girls CRAVE this attention. But whatever, they know what therye doing, theyre "liberated" lol...but yeah once in a blue moon, u'll see a guy flirt with a girl and I guess I'll use my imagination for the rest of the stuff. :) I think I'm going to go talk to him...
 
salams why not just ask your teacher for good alternatives and you can choose the most islamicly suitable one?
 
I would just write a 6 page essay on why bars are wrong, fornication is wrong, alchohol is wrong, punctuated by the word 'astaghfirallah' every now and again and drawings of what you think hell looks like with your teacher placed in the middle of it.

I'm sure then you would never have to worry about school again ;)!

.....Sorry sister. Let your teacher know about your concerns on the project. They're usually helpful and as czgibson said, teachers can't make you do anything that is against your religion.

Rofl agreed. x2
 

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