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searching for my brother...

peace,

i am daniel pramudito from Indonesia

few days ago i have lost my brother. he was killed in military helicopter personnel casting exercise. when i read his log book, he mentioned this forum and he loved to be here (he said that 'it was where peace was nurtured among the users'). i don't have any clue about his profile or his username here. i would appreciate your help so that i can trace back his posts. here is some clues about him:

1. he was indonesian native
2. he was a catholic and embraced islam in his teen
3. he was an oral surgeon (graduated from University of Indonesia and took his postgrad at Hong Kong Uni)
4. his real name (if he ever mentioned to you) was Richard Stanley Pramudito, we called him Richie, and he changed his name recently into Rehmat Salahuddin Pramudito.
6. he was in marine force in 2004, being discharged, and being redrafted (until he got the accident).

thanks for your helps and it is my pleasure to be here.
 
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Hi,

I'm sorry to hear of your lose. It does seem Asyur an-Nagi fits the description... I vaguely remember him mentioning that he was a convert to Islam. Did he have a tattoo? Because he mentioned once that he had a tattoo done before he became a Muslim.

May Allah forgive him.

Edit- I found the post, he is a revert with a tattoo on his back:

Asyur an-Nagi said:
:scared:
i have a snake tattooed on my back :scared:

but since i did it when i was not a muslim yet, is it still a sin?
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I am so sorry to hear what happened - my sympathies are with you.
:cry:
 
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Welcome to the forum,

Just to check, when did he died?

MashaAllah if it brother Ansyur an nagi that'll be sad. I know he has a fiancee from Malaysia.
 
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Peace,


inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi raajiun, i hope you find your brother soon... inshaAllah

and i also cant think of anyone but ansyur...

may Allah grant your muslim brother jannatul firdaus... Ameen
 
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Alpha Dude said:
Hi Daniel,

I'm sorry to hear of this loss of yours, inna lillahi wainna ilaihe rajioon (To Allah we belong and to him we return). May Allah swt forgive your brothers sins and grant him the highest height in paradise, ameen!

From the description you gave, I'm not 100% certain, but brother Asyur an-Nagi seems to match the profile. See if you can identify with anything he has said in his previous posts?

You mentioned that he was a dentist; the member I speak of had only just recently opened this thread on dispensing free dental advice to the members. So that's one reason to believe that they are one and the same person.

Did he ever say anything about losing a cat? Because he had created this thread announcing his loss:
Brother Asyur was last active on this forum 5 days ago.

I hope that you are able to find the online identity of your brother and I hope you the best in this difficult time of yours. :)
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he loves kitten. but i am not so sure he lost one recently since i have been living outside Jakarta for one and half years. but he really loves kitten.
 
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inna lillahi na inna iayhe raje'oon. Really sorry to hear tht brother Daniel.

May Allah swt forgive your brothers sins and grant him the highest height in paradise, ameen!
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Ameen.

insha'Allaah (God Willing), I hope u can find the correct user.
 
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Malaikah said:
Hi,

I'm sorry to hear of your lose. It does seem Asyur an-Nagi fits the description... I vaguely remember him mentioning that he was a convert to Islam. Did he have a tattoo? Because he mentioned once that he had a tattoo done before he became a Muslim.

May Allah forgive him.

Edit- I found the post, he is a revert with a tattoo on his back:
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Oh My God!

YES! it must be HIM! he had the snakehead tattoo.

Asyur An-Nagi...so he did use that user name.thanks. thanks a lot!
 
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syilla said:
Welcome to the forum,

Just to check, when did he died?

MashaAllah if it brother Ansyur an nagi that'll be sad. I know he has a fiancee from Malaysia.
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the marine internal affair pronounced the time of death was 05.30 (East Indonesian Time Zone), last monday.

YES, syilla. he had married Farhana bt Sufian, a Malaysian girl last year. in KL they stay near Cheras (or something sounds like that).

:cry:
 
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pramudito said:
the marine internal affair pronounced the time of death was 05.30 (East Indonesian Time Zone), last monday.

YES, syilla. he had married Farhana bt Sufian, a Malaysian girl last year. in KL they stay near Cheras (or something sounds like that).

:cry:
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Innalillahiwainnahirajiun.

:cry: :cry: :cry:

Glad you can come and tell us about this. Thank you so much.

I think i should announce this to the indonesia and malay language thread.

imsad
 
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im sori 2 hear of your lose brother. may allah make hima aplace in jannath
 
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oh so it was the bro.... :( may Allah grant him jannatul firdaus! Ameen
 
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^^ Ameen i'm so sorry! just pray for him Dan.

Innalillahi wa inna ilayhi rajioon :( :'(

‘O Allaah, forgive and have mercy upon him, excuse him and pardon him, and make honorable his reception. Expand his entry, and cleanse him with water, snow, and ice, and purify him of sin as a white robe is purified of filth. Exchange his home for a better home, and his family for a better family, and his spouse for a better spouse. Admit him into the Garden, protect him from the punishment of the grave and the torment of the Fire.’

‘O Allaah, Your servant and the son of Your maidservant is in need of Your mercy and You are without need of his punishment. If he was righteous then increase his reward and if he was wicked then look over his sins.’

Ameen.
 
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Umma Wasat said:
^^ Ameen i'm so sorry! just pray for him Dan.

Innalillahi wa inna ilayhi rajioon :( :'(

‘O Allaah, forgive and have mercy upon him, excuse him and pardon him, and make honorable his reception. Expand his entry, and cleanse him with water, snow, and ice, and purify him of sin as a white robe is purified of filth. Exchange his home for a better home, and his family for a better family, and his spouse for a better spouse. Admit him into the Garden, protect him from the punishment of the grave and the torment of the Fire.’

‘O Allaah, Your servant and the son of Your maidservant is in need of Your mercy and You are without need of his punishment. If he was righteous then increase his reward and if he was wicked then look over his sins.’

Ameen.
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Ameen!

He was a great member, LI is gonna miss him :cry:
 
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i remember the name, he had a skull on his pic or something similar to Li staff one, i don't remember reading any of his posts, can someone bump his threads.
 
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now i know why he loved this forum. you all are full of love, care, and attention.

a quotation from his log:

12 February,

"....Malaysian people, agnostics, atheist, and muslims with beautiful usernames, scattered like a firefly to warm and light my thought. so this is Islam. I knew it, and i have no desire to leave LI..."

 
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Umma Wasat said:
^^ Ameen i'm so sorry! just pray for him Dan.

Innalillahi wa inna ilayhi rajioon :( :'(

‘O Allaah, forgive and have mercy upon him, excuse him and pardon him, and make honorable his reception. Expand his entry, and cleanse him with water, snow, and ice, and purify him of sin as a white robe is purified of filth. Exchange his home for a better home, and his family for a better family, and his spouse for a better spouse. Admit him into the Garden, protect him from the punishment of the grave and the torment of the Fire.’

‘O Allaah, Your servant and the son of Your maidservant is in need of Your mercy and You are without need of his punishment. If he was righteous then increase his reward and if he was wicked then look over his sins.’

Ameen.
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Ameen..


malikul mawt comes without warning...
 
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pramudito said:
now i know why he loved this forum. you all are full of love, care, and attention.

a quotation from his log:

12 February,

"....Malaysian people, agnostics, atheist, and muslims with beautiful usernames, scattered like a firefly to warm and light my thought. so this is Islam. I knew it, and i have no desire to leave LI..."
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thank you for sharing that...
 
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pramudito said:
now i know why he loved this forum. you all are full of love, care, and attention.

a quotation from his log:

12 February,

"....Malaysian people, agnostics, atheist, and muslims with beautiful usernames, scattered like a firefly to warm and light my thought. so this is Islam. I knew it, and i have no desire to leave LI..."
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Ahh man :(

May Allah (swt) grant you patience baby bro. :'(
 
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:sl:

That is so sad. May Allah have mercy on him and admit him to Paradise.
 
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