I really don’t understand where you get this idea from.
Really?? Do you need more evidence? Look at the advertisements there…see how they are treat their women, I have been in UK twice and the most thing made me feel sick is the pictures of the advertisements there. Or walking around in parks and see each man holding a woman in his hand as if he is holding a piece of accessory…I remember reading an article in a newspaper long time ago about how they need to change the image of the woman in the west to make her more effective rather than being a necklace in the nick of the man, they even arrange a new kind of competition for women to vote for the best housewife who is very caring about her family and very educated, instead of being very sexy and going around in the evaluation of the competition naked. They themselves got sick of those stupid competitions that treat women as naked dulls to choose who the best one is………so just have a look again at
your media and you will know what I am meaning.
I am a native Briton and I can tell you that the law of Britain grants absolute equality between men and women and no man can compel a woman to do anything. A hundred years back a wife was the property of her husband, fifty years back the woman’s marriage vows were to love, honour and OBEY her husband. None of that exists any more and there is no law or custom that supports any person to compel or coerce any woman to do anything she didn’t want to do. If you think that women here take their clothes off (or whatever)
I know what you are trying to say in terms of quality……. but I don’t see that women are treated with respect in the western society, you can't say that I am just throwing words randomly because I saw that with my own eyes
because they are compelled by some man you are very wrong.
Many workplaces there force women to wear a specific kind of clothes, if they did do that they are fired!! So, is that freedom???
I believe that men and women should be equal, one should not have the power to compel the other to do anything, and one should not have less freedom or less authority than the other. Without equality there is no freedom.
Can you elaborate your view please instead of talking too general, so I can understand what exactly you trying to reach?
I recall your earlier post and I felt your anger towards me which I believe is unjustified.
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I will be very direct here, I was angry at the beginning from your way of saying that Muslim females here are frightened to say their opinions about the Shariah laws, I hate the way you throw your assumptions and trying to talk in the place of the others
I started this thread with a question after watching the news and seeing a report from a region of Pakistan which was under sharia law. I saw two 10 year old girls being interviewed as they sat on the rubble that was once their school. The interview asked them how the implementation of sharia law had affected them. The first girl said that her father had bought her a burka, she doesn’t want to wear it but her father is frightened of the Taliban; the other girl said that education was her only hope of a better future and she would now have to stay in her home. The reporter also interviewed a 14 year old boy in hospital who had been shot by the Taliban for playing football.
I don’t know each single details about Taliban and what they are doing there, but if you look at your hand, you will find your finger are not equal!, don’t generalize something on the whole religion. If a boy had been shot because he played football then this is pure injustices, why he would be punished for that? And if that’s true, I would say that Taliban is doing wrong here for hurting him because he played football like any other child
If a father is forbidden his daughter from going to school then I will say that he is very wrong, because islam is encouraging both men and women to go and ask for knowledge…..if you want I will quote the hadeeth and the Ayahs from Quran that said that.
A picture formed in my head of a society run by men who want their women to remain uneducated, in the home or covered from head to toe and I niaively thought that women would not want to live under such a regime. Sixteen pages later and I now have the impression that some women do and some others see (or hope that) the Taliban’s interpretation of sharia as some aberration that’ll go away and be replaced by some other model.
I am a female that going around covered from head to toe alhumdulilah and I feel that I am treated in my society as a
queen. I dont feel that being covered is preventing me to be effective person as I stated in my previous post. If I pass by a place fill with men and there is only a small space for me to pass then all the men standing there will move aside to give me more space to pass with a looks full with respect, even if they were not good muslims. For me, wearing hijab is my proud!! its not like the dark image you have in your mind.
Again some Muslims can’t understand why someone like me who are not going to convert to Islam is spending his time trying to understand Islam and Muslims.
Its your freedom to be muslim or not, there is no obligation on that, you are human being that understand what's going on around you, you can distinguish between the right and the wrong. So its your choice at the end.
I don’t expect people to say that I am planning to convert to Christianity when I am studying it now!!!! :?
Why do I persist – because there are 2 million Muslims living in my country and I believe it is imperative that we find a way to live together peacefully and I believe that can only be attained through understanding and that ‘understanding’ goes both ways. I have also been accused of hating Islam of course I do not; I am however worried by some Muslims’ interpretations of Islamic teachings, I do find repugnant those how advocate mindless violence, segregation, racism and hypocrisy.
Again, don’t judge the religion based on its followers only, you will end up have nothing if you do…………..because people are not equal in their behaviors, some have the right understanding of their religions, some others are bringing rules by their own and claiming that its Islam teaching