Should I?

[TrueStranger]

What happened to keeping family ties???

But don't break the close ties you have with your parents while trying to keep close ties with your sister who has angered her parents.

May Allah help you...

 

[seeker-of-light]

i agree with alcurad, follow what you belive to be right. i also agree with ameena, and you should try to convince them that they shouldnt disown your sister. is good advice i think

 

[i_m_tipu]

she is an adult, and responsible for her actions, on the day of judgment the first people to rebuke you would be your parents and family...

Thanx for ur reply.
Well I don’t yet want to ans this. Just ask u a question “Do u telling her parent is not her wali?”
If yes than pls give ur dallil (proof) not logic.

no offense but self righteousness is not exactly part of being faithful.

Totally agree with u.

boycotting only leads to a worse situation. and there is a difference between advising and not seeing them at all.

Sorry for misunderstanding. Actually I don’t mean what u understood. Every human being has a level of tolerance. In Islam everything has a border. Sometime u has to do more serious action than giving advice or tolerate the injustice. And this method was followed by all Prophets including their companions. If anyone tolerate all time than he/she do not understand Islam at all.

 

[piXie]

A Momen hardly tolerate kufr in front of them

no offense but self righteousness is not exactly part of being faithful.

You are right brother alcurad, but it depends on the situation.

In some situations you are not supposed to tolerate it (e.g. when u are dealing with a Muslim who knows all abt Allaahs commands, but still breaks them outwardly, rebels and disobeys). Hadrat Umer (RA) used to get very angry with these type of people. And it was a sign of his strong Eemaan. If you love Allaah in the true sense, you wouldn't tolerate it if you see His commands are being broken. And this is not self-righteousness.

boycotting only leads to a worse situation. and there is a difference between advising and not seeing them at all.

Again you are absolutely right, but again it depends on th situation. Sometimes to take a stand against those who are doing much wrong and ruining the peace, has good results. The person u fall out with (Boycott), realises what they are doing will not be tolerated and straighten themselves out.

Whereas if you don't fall out with them, they carry on with their harmful ways.

So depends.