Should women not pursue her profession/career after marriage?

[Sajitha Parveen]

Asalamualaikum wrb,

Im Sajitha from chennai, Im 30yrs old taking care of my mother and elder sister. My father passed away 5 yrs back and after that im taking care of my family responsiblities on behalf of my father. My elder sister is divorcee (Her marriage life ends in very short period) and we all were submerged in to that problem and she is very concerned about her second marriage life. Inshallah her dreams need to be fulfilled by allah.

Coming to Question. Im searching groom to get marry and we are striving hard to get proposals since im a working women. Grooms and their family they dont see the bride character and her family situations. they are simply telling that girls should not work, if she is a working women she will be roaming unfit for marriage life to take care of the kitchen and kids? Does allah said any of the mens not to support for her bride career or for her family life?
Does allah said bride family properties should need to be sold out if her father is demised?

No Grooms and their family doesnt like to choose a bride family if no man power support is available, Does allah said mentioned in quran anywhere if bride family is not with the father or her brother they should not be moved to work or manage their things by the womens?

Please do carify. We are very heart broken and stressed out of this dunya . we are helpless and i dont know what our people what our people try to follow islamic sunnahs

 

[AabiruSabeel]

In Islam, there's nothing wrong with a woman working within the guidelines set by Sharia—especially when it's out of necessity, like supporting your family after your father's passing. That’s actually something deeply respected.

Many women during the time of the Prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم, including the mother of believes, Khadijah رضي الله عنها, were successful in their fields. What Islam emphasizes is balance: a woman’s career should not come at the cost of her religious obligations or family responsibilities

If someone rejects you for that, it says more about their mindset than your worth. The right person will see your strength, not be threatened by it. Keep trusting Allah—He knows your heart, your intentions, and your struggle. The one meant for you will appreciate all of it.

May Allah سبحانه وتعالى forgive your father and raise his ranks in Jannah.

 

[Sajitha Parveen]

Jazakallah Khairan. Please keep us in your duas.