Re: Potential Spouses
deal with them going to hell - i mean they r still ur family and u still care about them. I know im not and never been close to my dad growing up and even now but i still care bout him though i never say it or show it.
I mean of course its hard, I mean I do look at my mom and see that she works hard for us and she wakes up early and sleeps late to go work and so on, and shes having a hard t ime here in this world.
But we should always remember a couple of things:
*G-d is Just, he doesn't want people to go hell as such, He judges justly and noone will be punished more than what is just and what they earned.
*That noone is going hell unless they have been sent a messenger and known the messenger
*That our parents are humans who were young and sane and they had clear proof shown to them
Now I know that the above doesn't seem very compassionate, but the above is something which I do think about when I get upset, I remember that although they are my family here, they are and have been given their options and if they don't choose it then thats life, we have to remember our real family is those in heaven.
You told me you prayed to Jesus and Mary, tell me, how much do you love them? I love Jesus peace be upon him so much, he was like a father figure to me, and I'd give anything to be with him, I cant wait to see him, inshaAllah, I hope my family comes but its upto them and if they don't then thats a part of life.
I know that this probably won't help, the pain is still there, for me its there when I think of the punishements of hell and I invision my family there, then of course it hurts, but it's their choice. Try not to vividly picture it, I don't I just try to remmeber the above points.