I know that many like to marry doctors but I suppose this is just because their husbands would understand their position. it's very difficult (although not impossible) for someone who has not done medicine to actually understand the stresses and issues in medicine.
As for me, marriage will depend on character and taqwah. After all, that's what really matter's isn't it.
I know of a few med students who marry while studying, so I suppose it is possible.
About the close contact and examination of male patients, it's rather unavoidable while studying and in internship and community service, but after that you can open your own surgey and see patients that you would like to see eg. women and children only.
Bint Abee didn't mention that she is a 3rd year medical student

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Also, I suppose that this doesn't particularly pertain to your question, but girls studying medicine are more likely to be more practising muslims than those who study in other fields. (This is not everyone, though, and not everywhere either).
I have noticed that here @ medskul alhamdulillah..that as u progress u bcum more grateful for the bounties of Allah and u bcum more dependent on Allah 4 assistance in your studies.(Im only in 1st year though)...there are certain brothers and sisters however who become negatively inflenced and resourt to haraam as a way of dealing with the stress of studying etc.
My friend thinks that if you don't get married early or you don't find someone, you will get the "left-over's" :skeleton:coz you will be older when you finished studying and generally men don't choose wives that are older than themselves. I dunno, that's her opinion.:X
just 2 add to that.Some people say that if you're not married by the tym you r about 23 then you're "on the shelf".
And about caring for the family, I think that is priority number 1. Even if it means leaving my career, I think it is more important to mould the next generation to be good, strong muslims. It's no use helping the whole world if your children are being neglected.
I agree totally