Small girl crying?

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I didn't even know it may be seen as necessary to help a child.

In the UK children are often told not to talk to strangers. If a complete stranger approaches a child not wearing a uniform, it may be seen as suspicious. Where I live there have been ethnic clashes between communities. It doesn't help there were cases of older men grooming young girls...
 
Salam alaykum

As I live different society... In here it would just shown you are caring person, when go to ask child if she needs help. I remember one case here when child was crying hysterically on the bus stop. When people went to ask what is wrong, they realised she had diabetes stroke, they ran to get her some chocolate, took her mobile, found number to hers mom and run her to get treatment.

Here too kids teach not to trust strangers but adults has to know when someone needs help.

You might not know but you was ready to help, if needed. That I respect.
 
i find it ironic that it is okay for a woman to hold a child up and be not labeled a pedophile, yet it is almost pedophilia if as a man you hold the stranger child up. Thanks to feminazi castration of society.

You dont have to look far. Its in the news. More women/mothers kill their babies than men/fathers.

To retain whatever is left of our bruised self-esteem, stop helping people! We all need to help ourselves firstly.
 
The lost kid who I've helped last month is a boy, and he wasn't crying.

It's happened in parking area. So, I brought him to parking security guard, then we share duty. I searched the parent on the west side, the security guard searched the on east side, while that lost boy stayed with parking ticket officer. Alhamdulillah, we (in exactly, the security guard) found his mother.

Is unnecessary to help the lost kid?. Hmm, hmm, I lost in an exhibition event when I was 4.
 
I left my house when i was 7 years old and i walked a couple of miles through a city similar to new york and then came back home at night..to find my mum crying.

Nobody protected us except Allah
 
Cabdullahi said:
women cannot be pee da files.
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They can't??
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/magazine/8022861.stm
http://www.child-safety-for-parents.com/female-pedophile.html#.UNAaT9Q-d3E

GuestFellow, I think your intentions were really good. But it is true that we should approach any children with care. As a woman I would do the same.
Finding a security person would be useful.
But if there isn't one around, I would at least feel inclined to keep an eye on the child, to make sure that a parent comes back for her.
If you feel you have to approach her, keep your distance. Speak to her, but don't make physical contact. Involve other people, so your intentions are clear (for example, ask walkers-by if they know who the child is).
And keep looking out for a parent or a security person, who can take over from you.

Although it may be an uncomfortable situation, I don't think leaving a vulnerable 5-year-old on her own is an option ... You still have a responsibility of care.
 
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GuestFellow said:
I will call a community officer
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where is this world going? or have i spent all my life out side this world..
i never thought helping a little child can be a crime or suspicious
 
GuestFellow said:
No. I don't want people to think that. Some people might think I'm up to no good. I thought it might lead to a confrontation.
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Bro thats what your nafs want to make you think, preventing you from doing good deeds. Only you and Allah knows your intention. Dont think too much about people around you. Or whatever they think or say, there is no reason to be worried about that, as long you do things which please Allah.

Even if you had to wear 2 buckets of alcohol in public (not planning to drink it), in a area where alot of muslims are lliving.
 
GuestFellow said:
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I was coming back from WORK. I usually go into town for a while. Most people think I'm a school student. XD I take off my tie and my shirt is not tucked in. o_o

I saw this ADORABLE little girl standing in the middle of the shopping mall. She must have been about 5 years old or even younger. She looked lost and was crying. To me no one was actually going to help her. I am NOT the type of person to interfere in these situations, but I was going to ask the little girl where her parents were.

Her dad spotted her. He was in some designer clothes shop. Anyway, I dashed off. People can get the wrong idea these days. I doubt anyone even noticed I was walking towards the girl.

Was I about to do something stupid?
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What's the big deal I don't seem to get it :O ? What's there in helping a child lost or not lost, its regarded as kind here in my country :hmm: ! U'd always see men here helping kids and ladies, even if they professors LOL! I always gethe ones asking, mate must I carry ur packets ;D, it look a bit difficult 4 u with ur abaya n khimaar and I'm like no thanks my bro is there, just waiting 4 him :hiding: . Or am I missing some point here in ur story?
 
I had a similar experience, this child was crying but I wasnt sure if his mum was nearby but not paying attention or he was actually lost. So many people were nearby but not doing anything. Finally some older woman said are you lost and he cried 'yes'.

Just goes to show, people are too afraid to do anything.
 

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