so a friend advised me...

[Ummu Sufyaan]

...after i asked her the following

if you really wanted something, but the rest of the world are like "no way thats stupid." but in your heart it feels right and you feel that they are wrong, would you still follow that dream?

dreams are important and always have them, choose the realistic ones, and pray to Allah for guidance....only special people really get to follow their real dreams and find passion, inspiration, and content from what they dream to do, but again be realistic, and always give ta3a (obedience) to your Lord, your prophet, then your parents...forget the rest to a degree...

just thought id share...

 

[roohani.doctor]

great advice

 

[AnonymousPoster]

What if you are extremely angry and you dream for something that even you know is wrong and haram to be done you your enemies?

 

[Ummu Sufyaan]

maybe you should wait till your anger is over, then see how important this "dream" is to you....we all through our "moments" and say/do things during these times which we later regret , because we're blinded by our that particular emotion, only to later realize how stupid we were...

and if its wrong and haram, then even for an enemy you shouldnt wish that...

great advice

thanks

 

[Al-Zaara]

only special people really get to follow their real dreams and find passion, inspiration, and content from what they dream to do

Only special people? That's all of us, we're all special. Sometimes there are dreams that come true, dreams we didn't even knew we had.

We have to sometimes give up some of our passion, to make people we love content. But there are people in the world, what would be have done if they would have given up to the rest of the world? Many things have been achieved just 'cause there were these people who fought what they believed in even though the rest of the world spit on 'em. Just a thought.

 

[Ummu Sufyaan]

lol yh i kinda didnt get that bit either :-[ but i just thought id add it in anyway :-[

and nice thought from you too