So how do Muslims get married?

[strivingobserver98]

I didnt say first part I said the boundaries part. I mean I agree there must be boundaries between the two who want to marry. However, you said always have parents involved from beginning but what if they dont have parents or their parent dont want them to marry? What will be then?

Best to ask scholar for your first question .

If parents don't want them to marry it depends on the reason:

If the father/ mother is aware then they should ensure that there is a successful outcome and if there is compatibility between the couple, they should try and ensure that the marriage takes place as soon as possible. Mere excuses, such as they are from a lower cast etc are not acceptable. However, valid reasons such as religion must be taken in to account.

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