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i saw her at my sisters wedding. i think she is the sister of my friend. is there any thing i can do islamically to talk to her etc. is there also like a verse in which we can start to like each other. i mean like a taweez
 
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_PakistaN_ said:
i saw her at my sisters wedding. i think she is the sister of my friend. is there any thing i can do islamically to talk to her etc. is there also like a verse in which we can start to like each other. i mean like a taweez
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if your interested in someone., don't muck around, just get straight to the point and do things the proper way, inshallah. do a background check, ask people about her, etc. only speak to her in front of her family and get to know her through them, inshallah.
 
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if your interested in someone., don't muck around, just get straight to the point and do things the proper way, inshallah. do a background check, ask people about her, etc. only speak to her in front of her family and get to know her through them, inshallah.
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yep:statisfie:statisfie
 
_PakistaN_ said:
i saw her at my sisters wedding. i think she is the sister of my friend. is there any thing i can do islamically to talk to her etc. is there also like a verse in which we can start to like each other. i mean like a taweez
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What are you going to do after you get that taweez? Get another to get all the money for your wedding? Then another taweez to get kids? Then another taweez to get a job? Then another for a car?

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Make du'aa to Allaah, bro.

وقال ربكم ادعوني أستجب لكم

And your Lord says: "Call on Me; I will answer your (Prayer)
 
taweez is a form of shirk is it not?

because your basically relying on a taveez instead of Allah swt...
 
jus pray, pray alot, pray ishtikhara, you will be guided and if its mean to be she shall become ur wife, if not, then its not meant to be..
i think we all sometimes get lost in what we want and how much we want something, we need to focus more into is it the right thing for us and be guided upon that...
 
Zaynab, the wife of Abdullah ibn Masood reported that once when he saw a cord necklace around her neck and asked what it was, she replied, "it is a cord in which a spell has been place to HELP me." He (abdullah her husband) snatched it away from her neck and broke it and said, "Surely, the family of Abdullah has no need for SHIRK! I heard Allah's Messeneger (peace be upon him) say "Verily, spells, talismans (tabeez) and charms are shirk. So Zaynab replied, why are you saying this, my eyes use to discharge (have allergy problems) and when i went to so and so the jew, he put a spell on it and it stopped discharging!" ibn Masood replied, " Verily it was only the DEVIL prodding it with his hand, so when you had it bewitched, he stopped. Making it seem that the talisman did it, and making you commit shirk." (Abu Dawood, Ahmad).
 
AssalamuAlaykum,
Bro you don't need a taweez...Ask around...make sure sure she has a good background....Then tell your parents about it, don't try to take it into your own hands.
Insha'Allah pray to Allah.
 
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We'll she doesn't wear a hijab or anything. but she is really pretty
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So the only reason you want to marry this girl is because you think she's pretty?...^o)

Brother no offense, but all that shows is that you need to go through a loooot of maturing before even considering marriage. You also need to get your priorities straight. When she gets old and wrinkly and gray haired, will you still want to be married to her?

*Siiiigh* boys....:enough!:
 
natural reaction in men, created by god himself, but following impulses is not always good is it now,,
and istikharah is not some magical thing you do and then get answers to all question in life, rather go family, brother etc and then talk to her.
 
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You think very present moment-ish. Be a little bit intuitive. In the grand scheme of things it's important that you find out more about this girl and see if she is eligible (and yourself too) for marriage. Deal with the matter as close to reality as possible.

Btw i'm the member who started the thread 'shattering inside everyday' just incase.

all the best.
 
you want to marry her because she's pretty ok well what happens 20-30 years down the line when she’s rather plain?? brother ,love at first sight means nothing absolutely diddle squat but real love is when you find a religious girl and with time she grows on you and you both stick together through all hardships that’s real love......

''he drove me in his Mercedes aww it was just lovely'' or ‘’**** she looked at me, she’s hot!!’
The above is what we constantly see in movies and it’s just our silly imagination, so snap out of it and get real!!
 
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Dear Brother

You need to ask yourself a few questions

Am I ready for marriage?
Am I prepared for marriage?
Am I willing to make sacrifices for marriage?
Am I marrying the right person? (pretty helps but what is she like?)

These is a serious commitment. Make enquiries, do istikarah.

Akhi, she may not even like you!!
 
_PakistaN_ said:
i saw her at my sisters wedding. i think she is the sister of my friend. is there any thing i can do islamically to talk to her etc. is there also like a verse in which we can start to like each other. i mean like a taweez
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what u mean by this???
u mean like magic???

Go to your parents or guardian & express your intensions to marry her....
 

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