So....

[noorseeker]

Seeing people sinning and doing haram should make you want to be even stronger in your imaan, meaning you will be more determined to stay away from sin.

 

[IbnAbdulHakim]

I have had around 17 employers over past 32 years and none of them would stand for/tolerate such behaviour

relaxing a bit once the job is done is all well and good


your employers sound like people i would hate to work for

 

[IbnAbdulHakim]

Seeing people sinning and doing haram should make you want to be even stronger in your imaan, meaning you will be more determined to stay away from sin.

what a rare breed you are if that is the case for you...

 

[chacha_jalebi]

bless ya akhi, jus think of it as your doin a jihaad with your fast innaay,

and wheneva im in a similar situation, jus remem this hadiths its comfortin...


"Allah says: I am to my servant as he expects of Me, I am with him when he remembers Me. If he remembers Me in his heart, I remember him to Myself, and if he remembers me in an assembly, I mention him in an assembly better than his..." [Bukhari]


so like erm jus remember Allah (swt) and he will remembeaa you, and you should inshallah get more reward for rememberin Allah (swT) in the environment your in

 

[Khalisah]

I thought you worked in a female free zone?...

'Persevere with patience; for assuredly the promise of Allah is true. Do not let those who have no certainty of faith be able to shake your firmness' (30:60)

'Be certain that your Lord will pay back to all (full recomense) of their deeds. He knows all that they do' (11:111)

 

[noorseeker]

well last night at work, they had the music on so loud , you cant stay away from it , especially when the tracks you used to listen to come on.

 

[IbnAbdulHakim]

I thought you worked in a female free zone?...
(11:111)

i do sis, i dont have a single female colleague here, but the internets full of em... and he has msn/webcam the whole set.

well last night at work, they had the music on so loud , you cant stay away from it , especially when the tracks you used to listen to come on.

yep know what thats like bro

"Allah says: I am to my servant as he expects of Me, I am with him when he remembers Me. If he remembers Me in his heart, I remember him to Myself, and if he remembers me in an assembly, I mention him in an assembly better than his..." [Bukhari]

jazakAllaah khair

 

[noorseeker]

Theres people sinning everwhere you go brother, and thats just work, i wish i could avoid the dunya . but i cant, i get scared sometimes to go out, and stay at home for fear of my my gaze wondering.

 

[qassy!]

my colleague next to me is listenin to music/chatting to girls

the one next to him is playing his guitar

the one behind us is talking with foul language



and im sitting here fasting

Are you in college or work?, if its work how the hell can they get away with that?

 

[IbnAbdulHakim]

^ the boss sits in his own office

 

[IbnAbdulHakim]

Theres people sinning everwhere you go brother, and thats just work, i wish i could avoid the dunya . but i cant, i get scared sometimes to go out, and stay at home for fear of my my gaze wondering.

yea i know that feeling too, and the fear of how u know its going to affect your heart yet you have to go through it.

you know the difference in how i feel during the night and during the day is AS different as the earth from the heavens

 

[qassy!]

what company is it ?

So the females and males are chatting to each other?
Someone is playing music on their gutair?
Sonone is swearing?

 

[Ansariyah]

*(*

 

[IbnAbdulHakim]

^ its calmed down a bit now, guitar boys been sent to fix something

the one who was flirting (online whilst listening to tunes etc) got sent on a job too


the ones swearing are still around, but i think they're watching something now lol



i work for an educational institute, its summer term, no students around, its quiet and the boss is away.... so

 

[IbnAbdulHakim]

And Ive been asked )by this guy at school) "If I want to go out wit him"?

im guessing your making a point here?


this is just my rant thread to be honest, i know lifes a struggle till death.



hey i aint ever really had a rant thread before, it feels kinda good lol

 

[noorseeker]

wouldnt it be great if you were the boss, then you will have your own office, away from fitnah lol

 

[Ansariyah]

I was ranting jst like u were.

I will edit my post.

 

[IbnAbdulHakim]

wouldnt it be great if you were the boss, then you will have your own office, away from fitnah lol

one day inshaAllaah

 

[IbnAbdulHakim]

I was ranting jst like u were.

I will edit my post if u have issues wit it.

sorry i didnt mean to offend, i think its my lack of smiley usage lol :-[


its ok, btw if you really hate boys checking you out, you know what to do

 

[Khalisah]

i do sis, i dont have a single female colleague here, but the internets full of em... and he has msn/webcam the whole set.

Wow all that at work! Thats terrible!.

'Fear Allah, and know that He is with tho who restrain themselves'

'For those who fear Allah, He always prepares a way out' (65:17)

Just the fact that you are here indicates that you fear Allah, May Allah protect you from falling into temptation...May He protect us all..