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As salam alaikum

My life went downhill when I was 15
I had been diagnosed with strange mental illness I dunno
Schizophrenia bipolar autism...

I struggled with this mental illness not knowing how to handle it
My mother and father took care of me
My mother still cooks my dinner even though I'm 36
And a full grown woman
I know I must turn to Allaah
And Allah is wise in decreeing this for me
And I must be patient as it throws fire balls at me


I got married and divorced

My mother still takes care of me I really need my mother
I pray I go to jannah with my mother

I could never do prayers fasting

I know Allaah is forgiving and merciful...
I don't know I just don't know how to spend my days
As a schizophrenic....
I don't belong anywhere...

Please help

Jazakh Allah khair
 
Ghost1987 said:
As salam alaikum

My life went downhill .....

Please help

Jazakh Allah khair
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Wa Alaikumus Salam Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh,

Firstly - Please do not loose hope! Allah Azza Wajal says in Surah Al Imran Verse 139: "Do not loose hope, nor be sad"

Also, Allah says in Surah Baqarah Verse 155: "And We will surely test you with something of fear and hunger and a loss of wealth and lives and fruits, but give good tidings to the patient".

So what do we learn from these two ayats? Be patient and keep asking Allah for relief. Try your best from Today to say sincerely 100 times Istighfar (Astagfirullah) - Why? Click here to learn some of the benefits


Secondly - Do you know the power of Dua? Dua is the weapon of a believer!

And your Lord says, "Call upon Me, I will respond to you." Quran (40:60)

Sincerely recommend reading this beautiful supplication (Dua) regularly.

This is an authentic Dua recited by Prophet Yunus (AS) in the belly of the fish, when he was in distress. If any Muslim supplicates in these words, his supplication will be accepted/responded to.

Dua_Yunus_Forgiveness-1.png



Pronunciation: Laaa i-la-ha il-laaa anta sub-hanaka inni koon-tu minaz-zalimeen

Meaning: There is no God but You, Glorified be You! Truly, I have been of the wrongdoers

Learn More: https://www.duasrevival.com/supplications/forgiveness/dua-yunus-forgiveness

Please remember us in your Duas.

Jazakallahu Khair,
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I should remain firm on Tawheed and avoid shirk...

That I should be humble

That I should be thankful for the little I have...

Alhamdulillah
 
Ghost1987 said:
I should remain firm on Tawheed and avoid shirk...

That I should be humble

That I should be thankful for the little I have...

Alhamdulillah
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Jazakallahu Khairan. Beautifully worded....May Allah reward you.
 
Ghost1987 said:
As salam alaikum

My life went downhill when I was 15
I had been diagnosed with strange mental illness I dunno
Schizophrenia bipolar autism...

I struggled with this mental illness not knowing how to handle it
My mother and father took care of me
My mother still cooks my dinner even though I'm 36
And a full grown woman
I know I must turn to Allaah
And Allah is wise in decreeing this for me
And I must be patient as it throws fire balls at me


I got married and divorced

My mother still takes care of me I really need my mother
I pray I go to jannah with my mother

I could never do prayers fasting

I know Allaah is forgiving and merciful...
I don't know I just don't know how to spend my days
As a schizophrenic....
I don't belong anywhere...

Please help

Jazakh Allah khair
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Dearest Soul from Islamic Awakening forums,
I remember you my sis - we both have had enough & just know you have been my most amazing sister from my stay in online world.
Always have been in my duas & convos with my mom.
I have had alot to go through those things & even worst upon worst ..
Me & my mom relates our experiences exactly yours to some extent.


Know - you're a gem & you had won our hearts at IA forums & here too ..
It's so nice to see you Shukr Alhamdulillah.
 
I always wonder why I'm not like the other children
A little dry...
You know schizophrenia and seizures...

I failed my first marriage due to me not accepting a co wife....

I end up listening to weird music...

I think it's too late little too late
To repent and do good deeds due to what has happened in this world like corona virus....

I don't think I should have married

I think I should have been a strict niqaabi
And guard my Chastity even from marriage


Life after marriage is hard you know...

Couldn't even cook then the CO wife comes in

It's worthless getting married in akihrul zamaan

It's always a cry and a shout and a scream...

I think I'm being punished with seizures due to getting married....and not being able to take care of the husband...
Once you get married in akihrul zamaan ever since 1970 you lose it all if your not strict...

Salam

Take care.
 

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