Someone enlighten me!!!

[AnonymousPoster]

However, if you are praying for something that Allah thinks it's bad for you, such as "oh Allah make so-and-so my wife/husband" then that's really a bad du'a you know.

Is that really true?

 

[- IqRa -]

No, he's just messing around with you, he's got nothing better to do... :-\

 

[Snowflake]

Sister, thank you so much for explaining all this in great detail. May Allah swt reward you for your efforts and to everyone who replied.

I have a much better understanding of everything now. :statisfie

Alhamdulillah waAllahu Akbar!

 

[mathematician]

No, he's just messing around with you, he's got nothing better to do... :-\

I hope this is some sort of joke because I was not messing around.
It is vain to come up with a du'a like "oh Allah make so-and-so my husband/wife".

Instead what one should do is say "oh Allah, if this person is good for me then guide him/her to me, and if he/she is bad for me then keep her/him away from me".
This way one is not seen as shallow by Allah.

 

[- IqRa -]

I was being sarcastic...

 

[AnonymousPoster]

This is getting very frustrating now. Why does people's good advice, good lectures, good books, good actions etc, only have a temporary effect? Then you begin to feel the same as yesterday.

 

[- IqRa -]

Maybe because your heart isn't in it? Truly yearn to submit to your Lord.