Any 'arguments condemning western dress' stems not from 'intolerance' towards other people, but rather submission to the commands of Allah.
As mentioned previously: By supporting anything (not specific to clothing) that contradicts the laws of Allah, means that the person himself, is standing in defiance of Allah.
My loyalty, and that of muslims, lies with ALLAH.
What you have assessed to be 'Hypocrisy', is in fact an act of 'Sincerity' - not towards man, but towards Allah.
As mentioned previously, there is a difference between 'Respect' versus 'Support/ Acceptance'.
We 'respect' all of mankind - in the sense that despite our differences, we are kind and considerate to one another.
The reason being, is that it is not for us to judge others, as well as the fact that a persons current condition does not necessarily reflect his future condition.
But, despite this respect, we will not support or accept anything that goes against the will of Allah.
^ Which means that although we will be friendly and helpful to the person who is dressed in very little covering, or to an alcoholic, or a drug-abuser, etc......when asked about the permissibility/ our acceptance of such ways of life, the only possible answer for a sincere muslim is that which is reflected in Quraan and Sunnah.
If Allah and His prophet (sallalahu alaihi wasalam) have commanded women to be dressed in a certain manner (with respect to any differences of scholarly opinion) - then this can be our only answer to the above.
Our frame of reference (the Quraan and Sunnah) is fixed. It cannot be bent to appease mankind.
We are in submission to the Creator, not His creation.
Peace