I agree with you (dude above) we're in similar shoes (you are wearing nike shox, right?)
However there's something like 3 billion women in the world, even if 99.9% of families are as you described then that means that there is 0.1% that isn't. Also strive in the way of Allah and Allah will help you.
I cannot get married at the moment for various reasons, one of them being that I hate women however, I still ask Allah in my duas to bless me with a wife for no other reason other than it's a strong sunnah therefore it will bring reward.
And if Allah blesses then it is exactly that - a blessing!. Something which you hate, and ruins you cannot really be a blessing.
If we're both given an apple and I hate apples but you love apples then I've been cursed and you've been blessed. In the same sense, a blessing to one person wouldn't be a blessing to another. Allah knows best.
Now, remember that if you get married it would be to one woman (for the sake of the argument, let's say one). That woman may not have the demanding father in law, that woman may not have all the other things which have brought the reason as to why you don't want to get married. In fact, that woman may be perfect for you. So yes, your argument would still hold true but who cares? You're married.
As mentioned before I hate women, I probably should've written I hate most women, or rather I hate every woman I've ever come into contact with. Fortunately for me I don't want to marry all these women, I don't have to worry about any single one of them and their womenly ways. However maybe I'll come across one who I don't hate and who would be perfect for me, and then that would be all I need inshallah.
in my opinion don't shut it out completely, maybe you're against it but don't shut out the idea of a strong sunnah out completely. Remember it only takes one.
Ask Allah for help and guidance, His guidance is the best guidance and His help is the best help.
lol women.
However there's something like 3 billion women in the world, even if 99.9% of families are as you described then that means that there is 0.1% that isn't. Also strive in the way of Allah and Allah will help you.
I cannot get married at the moment for various reasons, one of them being that I hate women however, I still ask Allah in my duas to bless me with a wife for no other reason other than it's a strong sunnah therefore it will bring reward.
And if Allah blesses then it is exactly that - a blessing!. Something which you hate, and ruins you cannot really be a blessing.
If we're both given an apple and I hate apples but you love apples then I've been cursed and you've been blessed. In the same sense, a blessing to one person wouldn't be a blessing to another. Allah knows best.
Now, remember that if you get married it would be to one woman (for the sake of the argument, let's say one). That woman may not have the demanding father in law, that woman may not have all the other things which have brought the reason as to why you don't want to get married. In fact, that woman may be perfect for you. So yes, your argument would still hold true but who cares? You're married.
As mentioned before I hate women, I probably should've written I hate most women, or rather I hate every woman I've ever come into contact with. Fortunately for me I don't want to marry all these women, I don't have to worry about any single one of them and their womenly ways. However maybe I'll come across one who I don't hate and who would be perfect for me, and then that would be all I need inshallah.
in my opinion don't shut it out completely, maybe you're against it but don't shut out the idea of a strong sunnah out completely. Remember it only takes one.
Ask Allah for help and guidance, His guidance is the best guidance and His help is the best help.
lol women.