I met a Canadian revert sis online in other forum . I / We requested her to write her story , here it is :statisfie
Salam alaykum...
When i was 18 years old... I was same as most of the young adult in the west... Feeling to going into club, drinking, meeting man , having fun with my friends , etc...
One night, my friends and me goes for to dance... I was wearing tight cloths and hill shoes, make up to look nice... I start dancing and suddenly one man come beside me and ask if he can dance with me... He was nice looking and full of charm... lol... I saw he wasn't from Canada... He was having an accent and something i never saw with no man around me... End of the night we exchange our phone number...
I call him as i promess him few days after... And he ask me for to take a ride in downtown... I arrives there with my flat shoes... and a long skirt and long shirt... Totally different style as was he saw the day we meet... The first thing he tell me its :
You look better like this then the way you was dress the other day.
I got little surprised... But feel more confortable... We pass the whole day in talking and walking... No kiss, no touch, nothing... I was thinking something wrong at the beginning but more the time was passing more i realize , he was having respect for me... He took me to the subway and we left... I was thinking he never will call again... Was sad... But i got suprised , he called me few days after and offering me another ride in downtown...
More i was knowing about him, his religion and his family more i was feeling good... My friends ask me to go in the club and i didn't felt the same way... I asked him if he wanted to come with us and he tell me :
Only if you dress yourself nicely as what i saw you when we go for walk. This was unusual for me... Going in club like this ??? OMG ... Finally i accepted...
The time as passed and slowly i stop going in the club and start passing lot of time with him and his family... His mom were expecting us to get married, his sisters also... Even his father was very nice with me and treating me as one of them... They included me as their family members and treated me as it is... They invited me to all the holidays, party... Slowly me and him found we were only very good friend on who we can count on each other... He left for his country and leave me with his sisters... They tooked care of me so much nicely... I was feeling so lonely after he left... But his sisters make me to stay with them and start teaching me more about religion and Islam...
Everyone around me was seeing me changing and being happy... The beginning of my life was starting... Alhumdullilah... Then my convertion to islam as start..
Few months after all this, I was working in a computer store and one day a group of man come in the store to buy a computer... It was my husband and is friends ...I knew it right at the moment what was my destiny... He was muslim and it was the most important part for me ...
Today we have 5 kids together and we do enjoy our life...
The hardest part i had was to include my father, sister and brothers into my life... The time as pass but many part they don't understand about islam because of what the media telling... I have always to make a concession between both side...
This is not the easiest life i was expecting but i hope one day I will be able to show myself to everyone (including my family) the way i am really... But still have a long ride to do before it...
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