I was just surfing through the net and came across this genius of a website. Firstly, Ramadhan Mubarak to all and a kind request to remember the Ummah in your duas at iftaar.
Sister, funnily enough i am in exactly the same position as you. I will be turning 19 this December and i have Uni choices to make. I wanted to study Arabic as its one of my passions but i don't think id be allowed. My first piece of advice is to do istikhaarah. Allah knows you the best and he knows what is best for you.
I wanted to do Combined honors at UCLAN Psychology and Arabic, but i was advised not to do Psychology by a scholar.
However, im still going through UCAS trying to find whats right for me. Its just nice to know im not alone! Lol.
Inshallah, the last decision we make will be the utmost correct one.