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:sister: I have noticed unislamic acts among muslims. Especially in nasheed artist they are meant to be a role model for our next generation. E.g sami yusuf, does his beard ever grow?? Its seems as if he is trimming it everytime. Another example zain bhika, more like a box beard!! Alhamdulilah yusuf islam is perfect!! Am i back chatting?? may allah(swt) forgive, am just trying to solve the matter. As we are meant to follow are prophet muhammad(saw) his our guidance to jannah!! But wot r we doing? I knw am a girl, raising a issue lyk this am just curious!! hope i am not offending anyone. Same with jilbaabs, ppl are doing certain thing are not respecting what they are weaing!!

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i agree wid sis helena
soem guys come out wid all sorts of STYLISH beards which r not fist length
and same for the sistas who try to wear SYLISH jilbaabs...or tight fitted jilbaabs..or another thing they do is wear a jilbaab and then ontop of that they wear a realli tight fitted jacket!!! and then u can c their figure
obviously the main purpose of wearing jilbaab is to cover ur self and so noone can c the shape of ur body..
 
Salaam.

Some very good issues raised here. I think what's happening is the Sunnah is trying to be modernised. This, can be a very bad thing.
 
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Anyone thought about practical reasons why people might like to cut their beards shorter than fist length? i.e. getting it caught in your coat zip?
 
helena said:
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:sister: I have noticed unislamic acts among muslims. Especially in nasheed artist they are meant to be a role model for our next generation. E.g sami yusuf, does his beard ever grow?? Its seems as if he is trimming it everytime. Another example zain bhika, more like a box beard!! Alhamdulilah yusuf islam is perfect!! Am i back chatting?? may allah(swt) forgive, am just trying to solve the matter. As we are meant to follow are prophet muhammad(saw) his our guidance to jannah!! But wot r we doing? I knw am a girl, raising a issue lyk this am just curious!! hope i am not offending anyone. Same with jilbaabs, ppl are doing certain thing are not respecting what they are weaing!!

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assalamu alaikum sister,

i hope you are not offended when i tell you this.

It is better that we look at oursleves first, and never judge others.

I am only giving you this advice, as it can lead to a very big sin which is back biting. Everytime we speak of another muslim, we are not only spreading evil, but giving away our hasanaat.

Who knows...maybe these brothers are more sincere in there worship to Allah, than a man with a long beard.

We all struggle with our eman,,it goes up and down...may Allah help us all..ameen.

My dear sister, it is better that we safeguard our tongues from the hellfire, and instead of speaking about them, make dua for them.

pls forgive me if i have offended u..
 
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Im not offended at all!! i have been wearing the hijab since the age of 11 and the jilbaab at the age of 16!! I understand wot is everybodies going thru!! Its just the scenes that i come across whom wearing the jilbaab or have stylish beard why misuse it in the first place?? y give bad name to islam!! It seems as if ppl wear certain thing that suits them meaning they view the quran or the sunnah from there view to suit them!! I'm just trying to help them, to fear allah(swt)!!! If sumone has the rite nyat wont fall the saytans trap!! Here in england am just suprise!! When it comes to wedding to choose a bride for their son, they wont even look a jilbaabs girl. They think all are the same!! Y do it in the first place!!

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helena said:
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:sister: I have noticed unislamic acts among muslims. Especially in nasheed artist they are meant to be a role model for our next generation. E.g sami yusuf, does his beard ever grow?? Its seems as if he is trimming it everytime. Another example zain bhika, more like a box beard!! Alhamdulilah yusuf islam is perfect!! Am i back chatting?? may allah(swt) forgive, am just trying to solve the matter. As we are meant to follow are prophet muhammad(saw) his our guidance to jannah!! But wot r we doing? I knw am a girl, raising a issue lyk this am just curious!! hope i am not offending anyone. Same with jilbaabs, ppl are doing certain thing are not respecting what they are weaing!!

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Whatever one does with his beard is his business alone. Not yours. On the day of judgment, you have to defend yourself from the fire, not them nor their beards.

Rather than talking about them here, you might want to email them and ask them. If, such matter really bothers you.

Nasheed artists are not role models. Our role model is the prophet.

Those who follow nasheed artist or a "fan" of any individual (this shaykh, that shaykh) must re evaluate their course in life.

Nasheed artists, shuyookh or whatever label you want to call them will only have their deeds to defend them from the fire, aside from the mercy of Allah.

Their fans can't help them nor can their followers or admirers.
 
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Takumi said:
Whatever one does with his beard is his business alone. Not yours. On the day of judgment, you have to defend yourself from the fire, not them nor their beards.

Rather than talking about them here, you might want to email them and ask them. If, such matter really bothers you.

Nasheed artists are not role models. Our role model is the prophet.

Those who follow nasheed artist or a "fan" of any individual (this shaykh, that shaykh) must re evaluate their course in life.

Nasheed artists, shuyookh or whatever label you want to call them will only have their deeds to defend them from the fire, aside from the mercy of Allah.

Their fans can't help them nor can their followers or admirers.
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Thanks for the help brother takumi. I was only trying to only help. As our prophet(saw) said ' if one part of our body aches we shud help that part as it is in need!! Basically it means if one part of the ummah is in trouble we should all help and show the straight path inshallah!! Alhamdulilah the brothers and sisters are least trying to follow islam, may Allah(swt) give them courage and and fully understand the obligation of islam inshalah!! All i can do is pray, personllay if i speak they mite take it the wrong way!!
I raised this issue, just to solve the matter, not to backchat!! Astaghfirulla am not lyk that!! Maybe some how some way i offended somebody!! may allah(swt) forgive me
 
The individuals whom you mentioned have websites and emails.

You have every right to be concerned. May I suggest that you write them your concern and advice?

They might take your advice and you will be rewarded greatly. If they don't, you've already done your job.
 
Hey dude... atleast have something. The last thing you want is to be ressurected amongst the women.
 
Takumi said:
Whatever one does with his beard is his business alone. Not yours. On the day of judgment, you have to defend yourself from the fire, not them nor their beards.

Rather than talking about them here, you might want to email them and ask them. If, such matter really bothers you.

Nasheed artists are not role models. Our role model is the prophet.

Those who follow nasheed artist or a "fan" of any individual (this shaykh, that shaykh) must re evaluate their course in life.

Nasheed artists, shuyookh or whatever label you want to call them will only have their deeds to defend them from the fire, aside from the mercy of Allah.

Their fans can't help them nor can their followers or admirers.
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I agree Role model: The Prophet
Way of Life: Sunnah
I get what the sis meant and heer concerns but lets not talk about other peoples beards etc..May Allah SWT have mercy on us and guide us to better ourselves..:)
 
Takumi said:
The individuals whom you mentioned have websites and emails.

You have every right to be concerned. May I suggest that you write them your concern and advice?

They might take your advice and you will be rewarded greatly. If they don't, you've already done your job.
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inshalah brother i'll do that!!

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how about those girls with hijaab
and
tons
and
tons
and
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of make up
it like a rainbow dropped outta the sky and landed on their face.
 
helena said:
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inshalah brother i'll do that!!

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I really like the way you respond to advice. We need to learn from you. You have a good quality. You didn't ridicule my suggestion nor ridicule me as a person. I'd PM you this post, but I reckon, members should know that you are an example to follow.

I'm not praising you because you followed my suggestion, but you deserve it because through out the posts you maintain your composure and your post did not even show a shred of personal contamination. It's a hard thing to do, I admit.

FYI, I've met Dawood, Samy and 786 personally and I've discussed at length whatever issues that have been discussed here with them (except Samy). Well, not the beard though.

Trust me, if the some (some!) members here would take the effort to meet them and talk to them, I don't think we'd be decreeing fatwa about them.

And you didn't make up any excuse NOT to go ahead and give them a piece of your mind.
 
Takumi said:
I really like the way you respond to advice. We need to learn from you. You have a good quality. You didn't ridicule my suggestion nor ridicule me as a person. I'd PM you this post, but I reckon, members should know that you are an example to follow.

I'm not praising you because you followed my suggestion, but you deserve it because through out the posts you maintain your composure and your post did not even show a shred of personal contamination. It's a hard thing to do, I admit.
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Masha allah brother you are right. Some comments that I have seen here in regard to the topic of her thread were brutally honest and she totally handled it unlike I would have. My thread woulda been closed astafirgallah!
 
Salaamz everyone!
I hope I am not being rude or too opinionated, but we should focus on the deeds of others and not just their opinions, right? Would it be better to have the beard at the "right" length and his character be questionable? And isn't it possible to wear hijab (or jilbab) and act unseemly?
As I said before I hope my response and questions aren't taken the wrong way...
Masalam, Melissa
 

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