SubahnALLAH!!! heart breaker

[جوري]

eh.. it is one of the signs of the end of the world as I see it
a person awakens a kaffir and sleeps a Muslim and one sleeps a Muslim and awakens a kaffir..

sister...wut do u mean by this...can u explain sis

Just that.. it is one of the signs of the end wa'Allah a3lam..http://islamworld.net/docs/hour/index.htm

i think its jus ignorance,she's never had proper training from wut i see

well.. then how can you possibly feel bad about that.. what happened to her parents?

undestood...especially since you can prove your point by asking to different christians wut they belive n theyll tell u totaly differrent things,have them argue...mission acomplished

Christianity is the dreamer's resort..
everything goes.. and that is why they sell their God at wal-mart and borders..

i cant ignore sister,r u kidding me...we're close..not attached but enough for me to care,plus i met her as a Muslim therefore i should treat her as a Muslim right?

she hasnt made a decides yet,i think its jus a thought cuz i think her dads christians but she lives with her mom

i met her as a Muslim sister and that how i want to leave her Insh ALLAH,i cant jus let it slide...i couldnt imagine sitting n talking to someone who has let Islam,Astagfurulah...SUbhanALLAH its all in ALLAH (SWA)'S Hands...must leave it to him but i can jus let this slide

its jus not that easy sis

but JazakALLAH Khair,really appreciate ur take...hope i didnt come as being rude

May ALLAH (SWA) guide as all to HIM (SWA),Insh ALLAH.Ameen

I understand your frustrations but believe me, you can take a horse to the water but you can't make him drink.. if that is what she is going to do, then I think any effort on your part will probably want to push her in that direction faster... I'd truly just ignore it..if she is meant as a Muslim then Allah swt will show her the way.. she has to want it for herself.. you can't want it for her

إِنَّكَ لَا تَهْدِي مَنْ أَحْبَبْتَ وَلَكِنَّ اللَّهَ يَهْدِي مَن يَشَاء وَهُوَ أَعْلَمُ بِالْمُهْتَدِينَ {56}​

[Pickthal 28:56] Lo! thou guidest not whom thou lovest, but Allah guideth whom He will. And He is Best Aware of those who walk aright.

 

[ayan333]

so true sis...its crazy,i send Islamic txt msg so if she responds an or asks about Islam ill gladly help but if not i jus got to leave it up to her..sad


ok JazakALLAH Khair

 

[Abdu-l-Majeed]

:wasalamex

Respected sister Ayan,

I don't think you should give up. I see you care for her, and I see you care for Allah's Deen, so I think you should continue doing da'wa. Make her realize that changing a religion isn't like buying shoes, subhan'Allah... That's the most important in one's life. Only one religion can be true (see here), and if she misses the right religion she'll in danger of Allah's punishment. And wallahi, she does NOT know when she's going to return back to Allah. There are numberless examples, I'm sure even from your own lifes.

So, my suggestion, sister, would be: continue your da'wa, Allah rewards every single good deed, and in that way you'll in sha Allah be sure that you've done whatever you could.

 

[ayan333]

:wasalamex

Respected sister Ayan,

I don't think you should give up. I see you care for her, and I see you care for Allah's Deen, so I think you should continue doing da'wa. Make her realize that changing a religion isn't like buying shoes, subhan'Allah... That's the most important in one's life. Only one religion can be true (see here), and if she misses the right religion she'll in danger of Allah's punishment. And wallahi, she does NOT know when she's going to return back to Allah. There are numberless examples, I'm sure even from your own lifes.

So, my suggestion, sister, would be: continue your da'wa, Allah rewards every single good deed, and in that way you'll in sha Allah be sure that you've done whatever you could.

Insh ALLAH,ill try to take the best stands on this and plz Pray for her n everyone esle whose going through this.May ALLAH (SWA) guide us all,Ameen

JazakALLAH Khair

 

[Abdu-l-Majeed]

:wasalamex

Ameeeen! May Allah reward you too!

I think you know it already: we'll help in sha Allah as much as we can.

 

[kitten]

i guess ur right


really? ive been doing that forever but no ones ever said nothin,i dnt understand sis,SubhanALLAH ive been saying it in every dua weather wriiten or after Salah...Im jus saying if ALLAH (SWA) wills...y cant u say it..not questioning it jsu wanting to know...




JazakALLAH Khair

Anas ibn Malik (radiAllahu anhu) narrates that the prophet (salAllahu alayhi wasalam) said,'When one of you makes a du'a, then let him be firm and determined in his du'a, and let him not say, 'O Allah! If You will, then please forgive me', for there is noone who can force Allah to do anything'.
[Sahih al-Bukhari #6339, Muslim #2678, Ahmad and others]

Therefore, what is desired is that a person be firm in his du'a asking from Allah in a determined manner, i.e. not stating 'O Allah! please forgive me inshaAllah'

The Prophet (salAllahu alayhi wasalam) said: 'Ask Allah with certainty that He will answer your prayers, and know that Allah will not accept the supplication from an absent heart.'
[at-Tirmidhi]



You have to make dua with yakeen( full certainty ) that He will accept your prayers. Saying inshaAllah in a dua is like saying 'oh Allah do this for me if you wish' No, you NEED to have full certainty because you NEED him to accept this dua as it is liked to rely on Him alone. It's like saying you that don't really need that dua to be accepted.

Just show Him your need. Don't put conditions on Him by saying inshaAllah (If He, Alah wills) If He doesn't want to accept your dua He wont. Putting a condition on the dua is not accepted.

That certainty in a dua called having tawakkul (full trust) in him. Again saying inshAllah in a dua is doubting that He has the capability to answer you, and therefore a sin.

 

[ayan333]

Anas ibn Malik (radiAllahu anhu) narrates that the prophet (salAllahu alayhi wasalam) said,'When one of you makes a du'a, then let him be firm and determined in his du'a, and let him not say, 'O Allah! If You will, then please forgive me', for there is noone who can force Allah to do anything'.
[Sahih al-Bukhari #6339, Muslim #2678, Ahmad and others]

Therefore, what is desired is that a person be firm in his du'a asking from Allah in a determined manner, i.e. not stating 'O Allah! please forgive me inshaAllah'

The Prophet (salAllahu alayhi wasalam) said: 'Ask Allah with certainty that He will answer your prayers, and know that Allah will not accept the supplication from an absent heart.'
[at-Tirmidhi]



You have to make dua with yakeen( full certainty ) that He will accept your prayers. Saying inshaAllah in a dua is like saying 'oh Allah do this for me if you wish' No, you NEED to have full certainty because you NEED him to accept this dua as it is liked to rely on Him alone. It's like saying you that don't really need that dua to be accepted.

Just show Him your need. Don't put conditions on Him by saying inshaAllah (If He, Alah wills) If He doesn't want to accept your dua He wont. Putting a condition on the dua is not accepted.

That certainty in a dua called having tawakkul (full trust) in him. Again saying inshAllah in a dua is doubting that He has the capability to answer you, and therefore a sin.

o dnt get nme wrong...i was jus ignorant whe it came to using InshALLAH after my duas..ive come across the Ayats u posted but never understood them like that,when i make dua for the most part(Sometimes but rarely i make Dua without even paying attention) im very strong with it,no doubt ALLAH (SWA) will answer my Duas for HE (SWA) is Al-Hearing,Al-Seeing..i jus thought it would be better if i use to,so in fact i was trying to get closer to ALLAH (SWA) by using Insh ALLAH u no by pleasing HIM (SWA) but i guess not

like today was the first time that i dodnt say Insh ALLAH after my duas,it felt so weird but i nio its wrong

ok JazakALLAH Khair,May ALLAH (SWA) reward all of us,Ameen

 

[kitten]

No worries sis. I wasn't having a go at you or whatnot. We're all here to learn inshAllah!

Ameen to your dua~