Last edited by a moderator:
Only controversial in feminist cultures. Every traditional culture in history has understood this.
"Were our State a pure democracy, there would yet be excluded from their deliberations, women, who, to prevent depravation of morals and ambiguity of issue, could not mix promiscuously in the public meetings of men." -- Thomas Jefferson
wait ...what?
people are advocating here that women should not have a right to vote?!
like do they want to treat women like chattel again and keep them locked up only to be allowed free to cook and make babies.
What the heck is wrong with people then?
salaam
Muslims need to be careful that just because you might not agree with many things in western secular feminism - you shouldn't counter that with MRA, right wing conservative, red pill types - they are possibly even more stupid and destructive.
peace
So, you can see if a man decide to go mgtow or man going his own way...in away I don't blame them. If a man feel he is powerless in all regard and the best thing he could do is just live his own life without getting married and have children and be self centered and focus on his own need, how can you say that is worse than feminist? Odd thing to say. These men just don't want to get married and have children and want to live their lives and enjoy their lives without any of all that drama in their lives. I don't blame them. Personally, I would do the same to be honest. If I know I have no value, I am demonized, I am marginalized, I am just a sperm donor and human wallet...I too will opt out of the entire deal. I think more boys should do marriage strike in my opinion until unfair laws against men changes.
Now if we don't care about men's/boy's right at all and prefer only women and girls right I am also going the other extreme route. The route where we decrease the male population to a very few amount (feminist greatest utopia and fantasy) and turn women into worker bee. Look at the bee colony and see how it functions. In bee colony there is the queen, the female worker and the drone. This can work also in human civilization. We will have one queen, they will fight each other to become queen and one kills the other and who wins the battle become the queen of the nation. In this civilization we will have 98% of the population female. However, they are forbidden from making babies. They go out and work. These female works build society, they build high rises and buildings, teach at school and run business and invent things and do things that was one for men now women take complete over. Then we have the drone. The drone is simple, few male populations where they will be fed and taken care of to mate and only handful male children are born the rest are terminated. Or better, through scientific means, selective males are born and the rest are born female to replace the worker colony until a new female queen take over. All these workers are neutered, they have no sexual desire and have no partners or husbands or raise family. They have one function. Work. Some are given testosterone to become strong female, others are police officers, etc. Ones the male child is born they are to be taken care of the father. The male child doesn't see his mother at all and his role is to procreate and repeat cycle. We can go this route in civilization. It also works!!
That is not Islamic at all. Men need act like men and follow the sunnah.
we are not just animals, we are created by Allah swt. Islam doesn't reduce men to "wallets" and women to "spongers". Men and women need to work together to build a Godly society and not build on ego which is what the Mens right/red pill. MGTOW movement is.
PS - I'm no secular feminist by the way but men still have plenty of rights and bogus to say women dont get tread like Garbage, plenty of cultures promote that.
The me too movement is women talking about their experience with sexual harrassment etc... Do you have an issue with that? Should we all just stay quiet then?
All this feminism stuff has created a thing where many women are for themselves.
Look at the movement for black people and the Chicano movement in the United States.
They used feminism to destroy these movements and to destroy these communities. I grew up in the rubble.
And who pays the price? Minority children.
Forget what feminism says it is. It is a fact that is was sponsored and promoted by the CIA.
It is artificial garbage and creates division between men and women.
As a man, I don't wake up thinking "how can I promote what is only in the interest of my gender".... my role is to try to build a better society for everyone. I'm not thinking of only my gender.
This garbage gender-nationalism that feminism promotes- it has destroyed families and kids are the ones to suffer. You go to the slums..... it is horrible. But some will promote what caused the destruction of minority communities and the destruction of those movements.... they will destroy it because they think it will give them a little power. Feminism is cancer.
We should be thinking about the best interest of families and children- not our own narrow self-interest. We should be focused on families and children- on building the future. Feminism has destroyed my community. Come to the ghetto and look for yourself what it's done to us. It is the children who suffer. I won't even talk about the things that go on. I've seen horrible things. And if you want to promote what has destroyed the people, what is destroying the lives and futures of children, what has destroyed minority communites and crushed their dreams, what has destroyed families..... if that's what you want to promote, I am totally against that. I am not willing to throw innocent children and vulnerable commuities under the bus. The feminists are more than willing to do so because they think they'll get power. It is disgusting.
This is completely nonsensical.Your assumptions about women need to stop. How the hell do you know if a woman cares for her husband or not? You're talking a load of nonsense. Do you think the prophet pbuh was weak for getting married?Well....I am sorry. But all these man hating have went into my tole. Mentally I am permanently looking at marriage as something toxic for a man and he have no significant value at all, especially as a father and such I really can't see myself wanting to ever get married. I re-programmed myself to not needing women period and children and I am happy. This happiness I am getting I will never replace it for anything in this world and now I am only focusing on myself and it feels good. My heart beat with range and anger when society are pushing men to sacrifice for women and children, I hate that and I resent it and I get angry. When I see men singing songs for their wife I vomit, believing him to be weak. When I see him making poetry to his dead wife I resent it. I look at myself, here is my gender whose heart is broken for his dead wife where if it was reverse the wife will move on and not care for her dead husband as much as he does for her. Then I remember how Adam have his rib missing so he needs his wife more than she needs him when she doesn't have any rib missing and I feel down, I feel weak and I feel resentful in a way. I like talking this feelings out..perhaps it is way to remove these toxic thoughts from my head who knows, but I also like talking about it because I need someone to shed light on me, I don't want to these feelings to be my down fall when I die. I am revealing a little bit of my diseased heart perhaps..I don't know. But for me getting married is impossible now. It is irreversable and the more I hear women talk, the more I see how children treat their dads and how that is common and the more I see how media portray men, the more I go down to my knees, raise my hand high and weep and say, "THANK YOU ALLAH! THANK YOU THAT I AM SINGLE! Thank you Allah, that I do not have a wife! Thank you Allah, that I am not married. Thank you Allah that I do have not children! Thank you!!" and I mean it in my inner heart.
The more I go older the more I am happier single, the more I am happier with the quiet around me, the more I am happy with the toys I have!!The more I am content. I have always wanted to make dua to Allah to give me strength not to need women in my life and in my heart....and it feels gooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooood
not to need anyone!!! I find men needing women to be weak, weak, weak, weak, weak!
Follow along with the video below to see how to install our site as a web app on your home screen.
Note: This feature may not be available in some browsers.