The most horrible experience eva!!

whoa... you people go through alot.... For some reason, I've never been hurt physically, but verbally, yeah, but only to a small degree... The kids at school are always starting fights in the subways, and once, a whole group of highschool kids came with baseball bats and knives to our school to fight and one kid ended up getting slashed on his stomach.... I decided to stay home that day, al-hamdulilah... Plus, we also got weirdos smashing our car windows, and on halloween last year, a bunch of punks threw bricks through our living room window... and if you look closely, the sides of our car and house have bullets in them... but I'm grateful I've never had people give me the finger, or have eggs thrown or have people want to kill me... But the good thing is, while I was sitting home safe, all you dudes were getting hassinaat for going through all of that... Now I'm jealous....
 
Once I was wearing niqaab this guy threw ketchup on moi :( people act somewhat weird at times. They prolly thought I'm some cartoon character. Subhan'Allah. oh well, All praises is due to Allah.

wasalamualaikum wr wb.
 
Queenoftheworld said:
whoa... you people go through alot.... For some reason, I've never been hurt physically, but verbally, yeah, but only to a small degree... The kids at school are always starting fights in the subways, and once, a whole group of highschool kids came with baseball bats and knives to our school to fight and one kid ended up getting slashed on his stomach.... I decided to stay home that day, al-hamdulilah... Plus, we also got weirdos smashing our car windows, and on halloween last year, a bunch of punks threw bricks through our living room window... and if you look closely, the sides of our car and house have bullets in them... but I'm grateful I've never had people give me the finger, or have eggs thrown or have people want to kill me... But the good thing is, while I was sitting home safe, all you dudes were getting hassinaat for going through all of that... Now I'm jealous....
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If you live in America, I dont blame them ;D

Kidding but thats what you get for living with animals
 
Salaam o 'alykum warahmatulahi wabarakatuh.


(Sura Mutaffifin (83:)

29. "Surely those who committed sin used to laugh at those who believed,"

30. "And when they passed by them, they were winking at one another (in
mockery;)"

31. "And when they returned to their people they returned jesting,"

32. "And when they saw them, they said: `Surely these have gone stray!'".

33. "While they had not been sent as guardians over them!"

34. "So, on this Day (of Judgement) the Believers will laugh at the
Unbelievers:"

35. "(Sitting) on thrones (of Dignity) they will command (a sight) (of all
things)".

36. "Have not the Unbelievers been paid back for what they used to do?"



wa Salaam o 'alykum warahmatulahi wabarakatuh.​
 
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Subhân'Allâh, it is so sad how people act.. But for me, my imân just gets stronger, alhamdulillâh..

This last friday, I was on my way home from school and it snowed, so all the subways was closed, so I was at a station, couldn't get home, go back, forth, anything.. So I sat down at a busstop and called my mom to come pick me up, then, while I'm talking to her, this lady in her 50's or 60's, who was an alcoholic I think, 'cause she smelled like alcohol.. Well, she gets all in my face, like 1 or 2 inches away and yell: 'WHY ARE YOU WEARING THAT HORRIBLE OUTFIT? TAKE IT OF YOU NEGRO'.. Lol, eventhough I'm not black, not even close.. So I tell her nicely to lower her voice or get out of face, while I'm talking to my mom.. I don't remember everything she said, 'cause she went on for like an hour or more, but she was so ridicilous.. It was so bad at some point, that an old danish man, took his cane(dunno if it's the right word, but the thing old ppl walk with) and pushed her away, telling her to leave me alone..
And when I saw my mom, I was so thankful, got up took my stuff, then this lady starts yelling again, telling me to go home.. So I said: Well, I'm actually on my way.. Have a nice day.. Then she yells: I hope you feel horrible.. Me: Thanks I'm fine.. Have a nice weekend..
Then another lady tells the weirdo lady: Oh shut up you old nag.. Then the weirdo says: NO I WON'T.. THAT THING JUST PUT A CURSE ON ME!
Lol.. Ppl are so weird.. I just don't have the energy to argue with them.. I would rather just listen to all that they say and they reply: Have a nice day or something like that..
And ppl here are rather abusive, and I don't wanna get hit or anything.. I'm not good at fighting, never been in one my whole life..

May Allâh give those mean people hidayah ameen..

:w:
 
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Minaz:lol no worries i understand, the word "piss" or "pissed" is seen as offensive in the UK
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A good alternative is "peeved off" : )

Originally Posted by Jannah
I know this friend of mind..whom wears the Niqaab....this guy was just staring at her for like hourssssssss......and his staring was not like any odd stare...he had his legs crossed and was very still...with his eyes wide open....just looking and looking....my friend couldn't take it...so she said "if you got something to say say!...otherwise STOP staring at me!"...hehehehe he never looked back again
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Good girl! ;D

Originally Posted by amani
i just went shopping and i was waiting to cross the road when a car went by and this guy shouted
its not halloween yet love ??? ??? ???
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Lol

If I was verbally abused, I'd either ignore it or say something (nothing rude). But if I was touched, I'd definitely bop them one in the face! Every woman should learn self-defence!

Soon after the London bombings, I was standing in a supermarket queue (in nikaab) waiting to be served and I noticed this white guy staring at me. Man, he wouldn't take his eyes of me. I was sure he thought I probably had a bomb strapped on me. In a funny way it, I got a big kick out of it :-[

Then, once I was walking down the stairs in a multistorey carpark behind a white woman. She turned back, looked at me, and all of a sudden she started walking really quickly as if to get away. I think she thought that I was going to grab her and blow both of us up ;D

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salam
may allah protect us from harm of the kuffars and also guide the kuffars to the right path, if not then may allah punish them for disbelieving
wasalam
 
AS 4 ME once SOMEONE SAYZ ANYTHING BOUT ISLAM i show them WHAT MY POINTY SHOES CUD DO
LOL
KICKING PUNCHING AND GOD KNOWS WHAT
LOL
I JST CANT STAND KUFFARS MAKING FUN OF OUR DEEN
MAY ALLAH PROTECT US 4M ANY ATTACKS
IF THEREZ ONE JUST CALL OLA
LOL
HEHHEEHE
THOSE STORIES WERE REALLY SAD
ANYWAYZ
SLMZ
XX
 
you did the right thing sis... here is a really good book I recommend you read. You'll recognize patterns of behavior in certain individuals and how to deal with them. I seriousely wouldn't take it personally. Sick people are sick period. It doesn't matter if you were Muslim or from Mars. Bigots and small minded people are out there to contrast our life so we can have a deeper appreciation of the good people that we do know and to deal better with adversity when faced with similar situations in the future....
http://www.amazon.com/Gentle-Art-Verbal-Self-Defense-Work/dp/0735200890
 
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I seriousely wouldn't take it personality. Sick people are sick period. It doesn't matter if you were Muslim or from Mars.
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true! for sick people, when it comes to dislike of a particular race/religion, it doesn't matter what they wear. Look at shilpa shetty.. she is totally westernised but boy did she get some stick in the BB house - i.e. so what if if she wears jeans and free-mixes, she's still indian mannnn!
 
wow you guys really seem to get it tuff!!

For me its nothing more than a few stares, the african ppl around here actually like Usama Bin Laden so its cool.
 
*Somali-chick* said:
did this sort of thing happen to any of you guys before?
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its really good u didnt show ':mad: ' when the lady said that....& yes something similar did happen once...but actually not as extreame.....

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me & my friend were on the train going up west. the train carage was full of ppl of all ehtnic background. we were sitting opposite some couples that clearly looked disturbed at us.:playing: (this was like a month after 9/11, and we were all scarved up)

suddenly a indian, early 40's guy entered the carage. the carage atmosphere was very still & quiet. as soon as the door shut, the indian guy started preaching...christianity. everyone was looking at him because he was so loud! :muddlehea ....he was not looking at anyone...but he was saying things like 'jesus loves you, jesus is the way of life..etc'

....those couples opposite us were looking at US...as if hoping we would start a fight or something...so they could join in...they had a smerk! ..BUT obvioulsy we didnt :D ...instead we smiled back at them.

then slowly the indian guy came straight infront of US...and started preaching again...this time directly at US...(everyone in the train were looking :rant: ) ...i personally felt ever so angry..because i felt he was bringing attention on US because we are wearing Headscarves and clearly were Muslims....

...(as it was nearly time for us to get off) he looked at me and asked 'DO YOU BELIEVE IN JESUS?'....we got up to leave ....i replied politly 'NO I DNT BELIEVE IN JESUS...BUT I BELIEVE HE EXISTED & HE WAS A PROPHET WHO WAS SENT ON EARTH BY GOD. & WE ALSO BELIEVE, HE HIMSELF IS NOT GOD IN ANYFORM!'...then we had to leave...( i wish we had more time...but whatever had happend was for the best i guess)

hope i said the right thing...but we didnt have much time to think.

(sorry for the long story ppl)
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another sad stoyr but don't worry sis you did the right thing mashallah, i don't know what do though if i was ever in a situation lime that
 
Most of these stories are pretty bad,id love to say it doesn't happen anymore in my country,but it happens all too often :(,but i dont think racism and bigotry is a majority view,so its also pretty sad that when these things happen in public places more people(other passengers/bystanders)dont have the courage and decency to speak out against it.

For you guys that have been on the recieving end i can only admire you for your restraint,im afraid if stuff like this happened to me i would lose it big time:grumbling .
 

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